We have often heard the phrase, “Life is what you make of it.” This is also symbolized in the story

of the “dash,” commonly heard at funeral services, representing the years between birth and

death. The “dash” truly represents, “Do all you can, while you can, as we are not guaranteed a

tomorrow.”

Evaluating those phrases through the lens of a community, there is little difference. If we want to

make our communities the best they can be, we need to do all we can, while we can.

I have served on the McCook Community Foundation Fund Advisory Committee for the past five

years with the past 18 months as treasurer. My time at MCFF has been nothing short of amazing!

It’s astonishing to see volunteers rallying behind new projects and numerous active donors

donating with a giving heart.

As we have embarked on journeys to improve child care, housing availability, people attraction,

and leadership programs to massive capital projects that include a new pool, ballparks, and an

updated YMCA, this truly is “McCook’s Decade.”

But how did we get here and where are we going?

All of these projects have taken a great amount of leadership and commitment that will make an

everlasting impact in our community. However, as we look forward to the next six years of

“McCook’s Decade,” there is more we can do.

We are entering a phase at MCFF with a greater yearly granting capacity, granting that can truly

help and transform the community. While having more dollars available for projects, events and

ideas is great for the community, a new problem arises. We need more people willing to dream up

new ideas and programs and we need more people willing to get involved to take on these

projects. Let’s make McCook the life of the party and we can do that by empowering others.

The “dash” of McCook is far from over. Instead, we need to continue building the “Hot Spot” in

Nebraska and this will take more action. We will need an active community of supporters who

want to work together to make things happen and we will need pioneers to think outside the box,

to take a chance, to come up with a dream and a plan to make it happen. I think of some of the

pioneers who got our communities to where they are today and there is no doubt they lived by the

mantra, “Do all you can, while you can.”

I encourage those who hear the phrase, “Rural America is dead,” to remember those living in a

rural area have the power to create a community that you love to live in. We live in a community

where the people are kind and give with a grateful heart of their time, their resources and their

expertise.

Anything is possible, when we get involved and we work together. We just need you and together

we will make McCook and Southwest Nebraska the best place to call home!

***

Gavin Harsh is the only person to be a member of the McCook Community Foundation Fund’s

youth group, Youth Change Reaction, while at McCook High School and then 10 years later

return to serve on the Fund Advisory Committee.

By Ronda Graff October 24, 2025
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By Ronda Graff October 16, 2025
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By Ronda Graff October 13, 2025
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By Ronda Graff October 10, 2025
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By Ronda Graff October 2, 2025
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By Ronda Graff September 29, 2025
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By Ronda Graff September 23, 2025
MCFF Fall Grant Deadline is Oct. 1. Complete list of former recipients on MCFF website
By Ronda Graff September 19, 2025
With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
Most likely, we aren't going to be good at something at the start. But that shouldn't stop us from trying.