We are all guilty of doing it. Sitting around and bemoaning the state of the world. Complaining about what did or didn’t get done in our community. Wishing that things would be better, would change or would simply be different,
But if that is where the process stops, then nothing will get better. Nothing will change. Nothing will be different. Because we must be the change we want to see in the world. Yes, it is an overused cliche but it became overused and became a cliche because it is true.
My late mother-in-law used to hold onto things because someone, somewhere, someday may need the item. In the end, we never found that someone.
Similarly, sitting around and waiting for “someone” to solve our problems or make our community better isn’t going to happen without our input.
Alongside the phrase “That’s how we’ve always done it,” the next eight worse words in the English language are: “I wish someone would do something about it.”
Wishing and dreaming are great. That is where many of our best ideas begin. But taking that next step and making things come to fruition is where change happens.
Maybe it is like Emily Young, who is working to create a Harvest Festival on Saturday morning in the parking lot of her business at West 9th and C in McCook. A lot of man - and woman - hours are making this event a reality in its first year.
St. Patrick Church’s Fall Festival is Sunday afternoon on East Fourth and G Streets. Now in its 47th year, this community event happens because dozens - if not hundreds - of volunteers put countless hours and financial resources toward it.
And there are other things happening in the community because people have determined that it is worth their time and effort to make it a reality.
Kellie Soden and her volunteer committee persevered for two years to create a dog park in McCook. With the support of many financial donors and the city of McCook, the K9 Korner Dog Park at Barnett Park will soon become a reality.
The walking trails may soon be expanded, new ballparks are in discussion and the pool...that’s another column unto itself.
Maybe you see something that needs to be improved. Maybe you have thought of something the community needs. Maybe you have seen something that is wrong that needs to be fixed.
We cannot sit back and wait for “someone” to ride in on a white horse and save the day. We need to make the change happen that we want to see.
For starters, contact someone who can actually do something about it or who knows how to fix the situation.
Sure, continue to call into Openline to voice your concerns with Rich Barnett. That is one way people learn about what is going on. Write your letters-to-the-editor at the Gazette. It is a good way to articulate how you feel about the situation.
But that isn’t going to solve the problem. Nor is lamenting to your coffee club, even if they claim to solve all the problems of the world by the end of three cups of coffee.
Instead, it is calling the city offices if you want to have your road fixed. It is reaching out to the restaurant with a complaint rather than posting on Facebook. It is joining local service organizations who are just one of the groups getting things done in the community.
And finally it is stepping up to run for political office because ultimately they are making many of the decisions that affect day-in, day-out. While we may not always agree with those in political office, we must acknowledge that they are giving of their time and energy. If we aren’t doing the same, then we don’t have a lot of room to complain.
If all this seems like just too much, there is one further step we can all take. Show up.
If someone goes to the effort to create an event, we can show our support by attending. If we want to know what is going on in our community and how our tax dollars are being spent, we need to show up at government meetings. If someone starts a new business, we need to show up and shop local.
We don’t have to make grand, sweeping gestures to make change in our community. Rather, our everyday decisions will make an impact. Showing up, volunteering, getting involved, reaching out to others. Those are the actions we need to take if we are going to be the change we want to see in our community. Those are the decisions we need to make if we are going to make McCook an even better place to call home.
Jeremy Shaw named April 2025 McCook Volunteer of the Month
While the Bison Alumni Newsletter will still be available digitally, a new printed service is available.
During a recent performance at the Fox Theater by the Lied's Arts Across Nebraska, there was one group who was not thanked: those who showed up for the event, which is a big deal.
Mark Friehe named March McCook Volunteer of the Month.
Although the Bodensteiners no longer live in Southwest Nebraska, they are still connected and wanted to see if prosper and thrive.
From long-term projects to weekly events, you cannot say "there is nothing to do" or "nothing is happening."
With the goal of reaching 200 subscriptions, the Bison Alumni Newsletter is launching a subscription service.
Long-time volunteer Don Harpst was recognized as the first McCook Volunteer of the Month in March 2025.
McCook's youth survey shows that young people now value safety in their community, something McCook provides.
Building Connections in McCook Matters June in McCook will be abuzz with fun events including a Youth Summit, hosted by McCook Community Foundation Fund. Our young people in Youth Change Reaction will host the first Nebraska Community Foundation gathering for youth, which will bring youth from across Nebraska to McCook. While still in the planning stages, our students identified that McCook is great because of connections . Our young people easily recognize how critical this factor is to people attraction, to people retention, and to improve their futures. What I miss most about my high school classroom is connections with students and colleagues. In education, I taught first, second, and sometimes third generations in families. My husband, Greg, and I are not McCook natives, but I eventually knew who was related to whom and usually where the parent(s) were employed. Going to the grocery store meant greetings from students and sometimes their family members. I officially retired from my high school classroom nine years ago in May. When you retire, the most-asked question becomes “What do you do with your time?” I try to maintain those connections and make new ones by belonging. For the past seven years, Sharon Bohling and I have volunteered to help plan and organize Bison Days for our high school students, which took place February 10 and 11. It would not happen without the financial support of McCook Community Foundation Fund, plus the McCook High School, local businesses, and the talented people of Southwest Nebraska who say “yes” when one of us reaches out to ask for the donation of time and talent. I would venture that they allow us to be on the Bison Days’ committee because we both have connections within our community—it’s certainly not our computer savvy. Connections can also solve a problem. Recently, I signed up to help a local family in crisis. My morning plan revolved around delivering my donation at a designated drop-off place. That didn’t work out. Fortunately, I still work with youth in various capacities, so I know that Keri Wilkinson works for Camy Bradley. Keri was an organizer for the family fundraiser, so I walked in Camy’s office hoping to find Keri. She was not there, so Camy and I visited briefly. She knew someone (who I did not know) who could possibly give me further direction. Only in a town with connections are you able to interrupt someone’s business, have her reach out for you using her connections , and offer to keep the donations for me until Keri’s return. Another great example of connecting can be found over coffee. Dee Friehe and I are longtime teacher friends. During a chance meeting at the grocery store a few weeks ago, she shared how she was there following a funeral service and was gathering supplies to deliver supper to the grieving family that night. She also updated me on her group of adults who meet for coffee on Thursdays at Ember’s, which varies from 8-28 depending on the day. She recognized the need for adults moving to McCook or folks just wanting to get out to make connections . Dee’s husband, Mark, also hosts his own group of men who are new(er) to McCook. She regaled me with stories of their Christmas party and other special gatherings. Wanting to call McCook your home is solidified by building connections . Ronda Graff has written about McCook Connects which matches a McCook person with someone new to the community of similar interests. I earned my McCook Connects’ T-shirt welcoming a young family with children. We have since spent many hot summer days sitting on bleachers together cheering on our 4-H horse kids while they show their horses. Warning: I connected them with a “free” new-to-them horse. Be careful connecting with me or you’ll probably own a horse. You do not have to be retired to connect in this community. Volunteering is a surefire way to meet people. McCook has many civic groups looking for new faces. Attend a church here; we have many welcoming congregations. Go to ball games or school concerts, attend concerts in the park, learn a new skill through the college, show up at a Third Thursday event or invite the neighbors for a BBQ. Take your youngsters to story hour or Move and Groove at the library. Go watch an event at the Kiplinger Arena. You can even take it a step further: Make a friend or call a friend and invite him/her to go with you. It is human connection that keeps us healthy and happy. If McCook Community Foundation Fund can help you connect in some meaningful way, please reach out for advice or support. *** While Pam Wolford may be retired, she is just as busy serving on the McCook Community Foundation Fund committee and started a new Learn and Return Scholarship with MCFF, while stepping up to grandparent whenever the call comes in.
