Talk to any small child and they probably have a lot of favorites: their favorite color, their favorite number, their favorite dinosaur, their favorite chicken nugget shape.

As we grow up, those favorites just seem to slip away. I’d be hard pressed to name a dinosaur much less my favorite kind. 

But lately I have found myself gravitating toward certain words that all start with the same letter. I don’t usually play favorites - although my kids may beg to differ - but it seems like there are a lot of “C” words that tend to convey getting things done, words that lend themselves to positivity, words that encourage me to move forward.

Chance - Possibility of something happening

It is easy to get stuck doing the same thing over and over because you know the likely outcome. By taking a chance, something will happen, something will change.
There is a possibility, that something may be negative. But without seizing the opportunity, you will never know if it could have had a positive outcome.


Choice - Deciding between two or more possibilities

Every day, we make choices from what time to get up in the morning to what you will do with your spare time. Those choices add up and make a difference in your life and in your community.

You can choose to sleep in and skip your workout for the day. Or you can choose to get up every morning to workout, where you will maintain - or more likely - grow your fitness and health.

You can choose to not get involved in your community and just let others make all the decisions. Or you can choose to get involved and to volunteer your spare time, where you will maintain - or more likely - grow your community. 


Change - Make different or replace with something better

Many people think that “status quo” is O.K. but actually status quo leans toward decline. The world is constantly changing and if we aren’t changing with it, then we are falling behind. We have to be willing to adapt and to be willing to try new things if we want to move forward. Because the other option is just slowly - but surely - dwindling away.


Collaborate - Working with someone to produce or create something

This is perhaps the word that has gained the most traction in recent years in our community. More and more organizations are coming together to get things done and we can see the impact it is having on the projects and events that are taking place. Collaboration is directly related to choice: every day we make the choice to go alone or work together and one of those ideas gets big things done.


I have so many more “C” words that are constantly swirling around in my head: 

connections, the relationships between people and ideas; 

conversations, where people share ideas; 

capacity, focusing on what is capable in your community, both financially and from community members; 

creativity, using our imagination and bringing forward new ideas; and 

commitment, dedicating time and resources to a cause and activity.

So all these words relate to the final “C” word which I am saying constantly: Community. 

Words do matter. Words affect how we think about our community. Words determine how we feel about our community. Words are literally how we speak about our community and convey to others our attitude toward our own hometowns.

We need to embrace these words if we want our community to be around years from now. We need to utilize the ideas if want our communities to grow and thrive. And we need to focus on these concepts if we want to make McCook and Southwest Nebraska an even better place to call home.

By Ronda Graff October 24, 2025
McCook's last hometown bakery closed this past week, leaving a void not just for donuts but for connections.
By Ronda Graff October 16, 2025
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By Ronda Graff October 13, 2025
Organizer for Buffalo Commons Storytelling Festival and former librarian named Oct 2025 volunteer of the month.
By Ronda Graff October 10, 2025
McCook's Third Thursdays were created to get businesses and organizations involved and designed to create life-long memories for the community.
By Ronda Graff October 2, 2025
Long-time community advocate Barb Ostrum received the Sept 2025 McCook Volunteer of the Month award.
By Peggy Been October 1, 2025
We need to celebrate our young people while they are here and encourage them to return.
By Ronda Graff September 29, 2025
While some like myself appreciate a rainy day, others dread them for a variety of reasons. We need to be empathetic as interact with others.
By Ronda Graff September 23, 2025
MCFF Fall Grant Deadline is Oct. 1. Complete list of former recipients on MCFF website
By Ronda Graff September 19, 2025
With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
Most likely, we aren't going to be good at something at the start. But that shouldn't stop us from trying.