Go alone, go fast. Go together, go far. 

It is said over and over but cannot be said enough. 

The quick and easy way to get something done is to just do it yourself. Do it alone and you know it will be done the way you want it and done right. Ask any wife who asks her husband to load the dishwasher. 

But that is not sustainable. We can only do things alone for so long before we suffer from burnout and fatigue. We can only get so many things done before we run out of time. 

Going alone doesn’t bring in new ideas. One person simply cannot understand or know everything there is about a subject. By bringing multiple people together, we benefit from other’s talents. Every person has their own strengths and weaknesses. By collaborating, we capitalize on those strengths and overcome those weaknesses.

Going alone doesn’t get buy-in for a project. People are more likely to support something that they had a say in, something that reflects their view, something that shows they were listened to and heard.

Going alone doesn’t bring in multiple perspectives. Everyone brings something different to the table. Who knows where the next great idea will come from. But by bringing people from various backgrounds to the table, we have a greater chance of making something happen. 

And thankfully, we are seeing more and more collaboration in our community. 


The McCook Mural Project is a great example of collaborating to make a dream a reality. 

After learning about the movie “Called to the Walls” through the Nebraska Arts Council, Joann Falkenburg was inspired to bring the film and the concept to McCook. But she knew she couldn’t do it on her own so she gathered local artists, local supporters of the arts, and supporters of the community. Together, these people worked to develop what the community mural should look like. And it wasn’t easy.

The easy route would have been for one person to come up with a design and paint it on a wall.

Instead, there were many meetings to develop a plan. Listening sessions were held to determine what elements should be considered for the mural. Weekends were spent drawing ideas on the paper lining the walls at the Keystone, followed by removal of ideas on the paper lining the walls at the Keystone. And countless hours were needed to work through the logistics of professional artists working with dozens - and ultimately 100s - of local artists.
If you haven’t stopped by or driven past the McCook Mural on West First Street in downtown McCook, try to do it in the next few days. Just to see the number of paint brushes needed to provide a variety of concepts and to accommodate all the volunteers. To see the variety of paint colors being mixed in tubs to create the magical yet realistic effect on the wall. To see the sheer size of the mural which covers nearly half a block in vivid, swirling beautiful in all shade imaginable.

And then stop by Saturday for the community celebration, 2-5 p.m. and the dedication at 3 p.m.

And there are other projects were are happening because of collaboration.

McCook’s outdoor pool project is moving along and should break ground for removal within the next month or two, thanks to the approval of the bond issue last fall. The bond was supported and promoted by the McCook Wellness Initiative, a group which includes the Community Hospital, the City of McCook, McCook Public Schools, the McCook Community Foundation Fund, McCook Community College and the McCook Pickleball players.

The McCook Philanthropy Council has brought together several non-profits to promote planned giving and estate planning, because of the importance of keeping local dollars in our community. This group is made up of MCFF, the Community Hospital Health Foundation, Hillcrest Foundation, the YMCA, McCook College Foundation, Norris Institute and the Graff Charitable Foundation. 


And perhaps the biggest collaboration happens every November during the annual Big Give. Formerly known as Big Give McCook, the event is now known as the Southwest Nebraska Big Give with nearly three dozen non-profit organizations coming together to support each other and to support our communities. And the Big Give doesn’t even happen without nearly a dozen volunteers from local businesses and organizations coming together as the Community Chest.

Rather than working in silos, we all benefit by collaborating. By working together, we can make McCook and Southwest Nebraska an even better place to call home.

By Ronda Graff October 24, 2025
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By Ronda Graff October 13, 2025
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By Ronda Graff October 10, 2025
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By Ronda Graff September 23, 2025
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By Ronda Graff September 19, 2025
With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
Most likely, we aren't going to be good at something at the start. But that shouldn't stop us from trying.