As a community, we make decisions every day, which affect our future.
Some of those decisions are big, such as building a new pool, having a new employer start up a business or renovating a downtown building.
Others are smaller, such as whether to have Christmas lights lining the rooftops of downtown businesses or welcoming signs at the edge of town, just so people know where they are.
And there are those decisions which affect the feel of the community. Do people say “Hi” as you walk down the street? Are the attitudes of the decision-makers in the community encouraging? Is the environment one where it is easy to get things done or are there barriers in place?
Do people feel welcomed and involved? Do young people feel like they are needed and wanted? Do people want to make things happen?
All of those decisions - both intentional and unintentional - add up to one thing…what kind of community we want and ultimately will have.
For some, they simply want a retirement community, where it’s quiet, where there's not much to do because you go to bed at 7 p.m. and where there is no reason to make investments in new playgrounds or wedding venues or preschools because older people don’t need those things.
And even if the goal is to create a retirement community, that can’t be done without one vital ingredient: young people.
Without young people, who is going to provide medical services? Without young people, who is going to own and operate our local businesses, providing a wider tax base? Without young people, who is going to teach in our school systems (and populate them with kids)?
And without young people, who is going to provide that youthful energy to get things done?
While a retirement community may sound ideal, a community can’t last without young people.
So ultimately we need to be making decisions which attract and keep our young people.
The consequences of past decisions are evident if you are out and about in the community.
As the race director for the local fitness series, I see how many people are signing up in the 10-year age divisions at each race. And the 20-29 men is always the lowest number of participants - if not completely non-existent - at each race. It could mean they don’t have the desire to run a 5K, or they don’t have the money to register, or they aren’t fit enough after four years of a college lifestyle. Yes this is purely anecdotal, but we simply don’t have many in that age group living here yet, if ever.
We make decisions to do - or not do - things which influence where our young people will decide to live. How do I know? Because my kids, along with their friends, are those young people making these life choices.
One of my sons moved back last year after graduating from college, making the conscious decision to move from Omaha to McCook. I also recently talked to another 20-something who moved back to the area to teach. Both have found employment and both have found housing which is adequate for the time being. But both noted that there is little for their age-group to get excited about and your 20s should be one of the most exciting times of your life.
Think back to when you were in your 20s and for some, this may be a stretch. What did you do with your free time? Go dancing? Go to the soda foundation? Simply hangout with your friends? Are those options available here?
Successful communities make investments in their young people. They create parks with trees they likely never sat under. They create programs which encourage young people to start a business. They created an environment where young people want to get involved, where they feel welcomed, where they feel needed.
If we want our community to not just survive but also thrive, our young people need us and we need our young people.
McCook's last hometown bakery closed this past week, leaving a void not just for donuts but for connections.
Many organizations and businesses in McCook offer the opportunity to recycle, reuse and repair items that may just end up in the trash.
Organizer for Buffalo Commons Storytelling Festival and former librarian named Oct 2025 volunteer of the month.
McCook's Third Thursdays were created to get businesses and organizations involved and designed to create life-long memories for the community.
Long-time community advocate Barb Ostrum received the Sept 2025 McCook Volunteer of the Month award.
We need to celebrate our young people while they are here and encourage them to return.
While some like myself appreciate a rainy day, others dread them for a variety of reasons. We need to be empathetic as interact with others.
MCFF Fall Grant Deadline is Oct. 1. Complete list of former recipients on MCFF website
With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
Most likely, we aren't going to be good at something at the start. But that shouldn't stop us from trying.
