At the south end of Norris Avenue in McCook sits what I consider one of our most under-utilized, not-fully appreciated and oft-maligned assets: the Amtrak train service.
Last week, I, along with my two youngest children, hopped the train for our yearly ski trip. We boarded with another half dozen people, a few from McCook whereas others had driven to McCook, specifically to catch the train. (And yes, it was late by an hour, but it can’t be early because we would get left behind.)
While Amtrak has decreased its routes during the pandemic, McCook benefits from having this public transportation with a direct stop (plus a beautiful station with floor to ceiling windows). I realize the train is not for everyone, but it is an asset for those considering our area...one of many of our assets.
Once we reached the ski area, the topic of the train service regularly came up in conversation.
Since I was adequately spaced, along with being covered head to toe because of the pandemic and the snowy weather, I visited on the ski lifts with people from across the county.
Every single one was in awe that I had traveled there by public transportation and by train in particular, avoiding the congestion of Denver and I-70. One of them even commented - unprompted - that the ability to do these types of activities must be easier for me because of the lower cost of living. The former Chicago resident had recently moved to Boulder and admitted that housing and commuting took up large chunks of his time and money.
While the mountains are a natural draw, there are many other reasons people choose a place to move to, settle in and remain living there.
In a report from the Knight Foundation, there are three things needed to develop attachment to a place: social offerings such as spaces and businesses which encourage social gatherings; aesthetics such as physical beauty; and openness where a community is welcoming to all different types of people, ideas and opinions.
For social offerings, McCook and Southwest Nebraska has a good start with locations and businesses which encourage people to sit and share their views, from the tables at Sehnert’s Bakery to the benches in Norris Park. And with Norris Alley and the K9 Korner Dog Park in the works, hopefully we’ll soon have even more spaces to be social.
As for aesthetics, we don’t have mountain vistas or ocean views. But we have beautiful lakes surrounding us, ample space for walking, hiking and hunting and a river which has water for kayaking and floating...part of the year.
And we aren’t lacking in man-made features either. Throughout McCook, we have beautiful architecture, from the columns of the old post office on Norris Avenue to Nebraska’s only Frank Lloyd Wright-designed home. And again, there is potential to create even more aesthetically-pleasing areas from building-sized murals to new hiking trails at Red Willow State Recreation Area.
But it is the third area where we need to make sure each and every one of us are intentional. People choose to move to a place, stay in a place or leave a place because they feel included and valued. A place must be tolerant and provide plenty of space for socializing where people feel comfortable having friendly and not-so-friendly conversations.
As social scientist and Knight Public Spaces Fellow Eric Klinenberg argues, investment in social infrastructure (including libraries and parks) is critical in revitalizing civic life and ultimately a resilient community, especially during a crisis. As our community moves forward, we have an opportunity to improve engagement, improve inclusivity, improve involvement.
This could come in many different forms. It may mean belonging to a local service organization such as Rotary or the Optimists, where people of all different views come together to make the community better. It may mean hosting a gathering to share opposing viewpoints to reach a common good. Or it may mean investing with private and public funding in those physical spaces which bring people face-to-face to share ideas rather than hiding behind a screen with their thoughts.
It is up to each and everyone of us to create a place where people want to come to...and stay. We’ve got a good start, but we also have a lot of potential to make this an even better place to call home.
Jeremy Shaw named April 2025 McCook Volunteer of the Month
While the Bison Alumni Newsletter will still be available digitally, a new printed service is available.
During a recent performance at the Fox Theater by the Lied's Arts Across Nebraska, there was one group who was not thanked: those who showed up for the event, which is a big deal.
Mark Friehe named March McCook Volunteer of the Month.
Although the Bodensteiners no longer live in Southwest Nebraska, they are still connected and wanted to see if prosper and thrive.
From long-term projects to weekly events, you cannot say "there is nothing to do" or "nothing is happening."
With the goal of reaching 200 subscriptions, the Bison Alumni Newsletter is launching a subscription service.
Long-time volunteer Don Harpst was recognized as the first McCook Volunteer of the Month in March 2025.
McCook's youth survey shows that young people now value safety in their community, something McCook provides.
Building Connections in McCook Matters June in McCook will be abuzz with fun events including a Youth Summit, hosted by McCook Community Foundation Fund. Our young people in Youth Change Reaction will host the first Nebraska Community Foundation gathering for youth, which will bring youth from across Nebraska to McCook. While still in the planning stages, our students identified that McCook is great because of connections . Our young people easily recognize how critical this factor is to people attraction, to people retention, and to improve their futures. What I miss most about my high school classroom is connections with students and colleagues. In education, I taught first, second, and sometimes third generations in families. My husband, Greg, and I are not McCook natives, but I eventually knew who was related to whom and usually where the parent(s) were employed. Going to the grocery store meant greetings from students and sometimes their family members. I officially retired from my high school classroom nine years ago in May. When you retire, the most-asked question becomes “What do you do with your time?” I try to maintain those connections and make new ones by belonging. For the past seven years, Sharon Bohling and I have volunteered to help plan and organize Bison Days for our high school students, which took place February 10 and 11. It would not happen without the financial support of McCook Community Foundation Fund, plus the McCook High School, local businesses, and the talented people of Southwest Nebraska who say “yes” when one of us reaches out to ask for the donation of time and talent. I would venture that they allow us to be on the Bison Days’ committee because we both have connections within our community—it’s certainly not our computer savvy. Connections can also solve a problem. Recently, I signed up to help a local family in crisis. My morning plan revolved around delivering my donation at a designated drop-off place. That didn’t work out. Fortunately, I still work with youth in various capacities, so I know that Keri Wilkinson works for Camy Bradley. Keri was an organizer for the family fundraiser, so I walked in Camy’s office hoping to find Keri. She was not there, so Camy and I visited briefly. She knew someone (who I did not know) who could possibly give me further direction. Only in a town with connections are you able to interrupt someone’s business, have her reach out for you using her connections , and offer to keep the donations for me until Keri’s return. Another great example of connecting can be found over coffee. Dee Friehe and I are longtime teacher friends. During a chance meeting at the grocery store a few weeks ago, she shared how she was there following a funeral service and was gathering supplies to deliver supper to the grieving family that night. She also updated me on her group of adults who meet for coffee on Thursdays at Ember’s, which varies from 8-28 depending on the day. She recognized the need for adults moving to McCook or folks just wanting to get out to make connections . Dee’s husband, Mark, also hosts his own group of men who are new(er) to McCook. She regaled me with stories of their Christmas party and other special gatherings. Wanting to call McCook your home is solidified by building connections . Ronda Graff has written about McCook Connects which matches a McCook person with someone new to the community of similar interests. I earned my McCook Connects’ T-shirt welcoming a young family with children. We have since spent many hot summer days sitting on bleachers together cheering on our 4-H horse kids while they show their horses. Warning: I connected them with a “free” new-to-them horse. Be careful connecting with me or you’ll probably own a horse. You do not have to be retired to connect in this community. Volunteering is a surefire way to meet people. McCook has many civic groups looking for new faces. Attend a church here; we have many welcoming congregations. Go to ball games or school concerts, attend concerts in the park, learn a new skill through the college, show up at a Third Thursday event or invite the neighbors for a BBQ. Take your youngsters to story hour or Move and Groove at the library. Go watch an event at the Kiplinger Arena. You can even take it a step further: Make a friend or call a friend and invite him/her to go with you. It is human connection that keeps us healthy and happy. If McCook Community Foundation Fund can help you connect in some meaningful way, please reach out for advice or support. *** While Pam Wolford may be retired, she is just as busy serving on the McCook Community Foundation Fund committee and started a new Learn and Return Scholarship with MCFF, while stepping up to grandparent whenever the call comes in.
