While many people may think Greg and I are McCook natives, our hometown is actually Cozad. We then both graduated from the University of Nebraska at Lincoln and we were married for two of those years while we finished our education. 

When Greg was hired by McCook’s Lloyd Benjamin and Associates in 1982, I finished my student teaching and began my teaching career with McCook Public Schools. We did not even consider moving back to Cozad because there were no engineering firms to hire Greg. 

So, why did we choose to move to - and stay in - McCook? It offered us two good career opportunities. McCook offered the careers that promised a future; it had a great school system for me and our future children. It was close enough to Cozad for a visit if needed, but not so close that we were home every weekend. It felt a lot like our original hometown, and there were many young couples who were getting their start here as well at the time.

Because we were able to achieve our goals in McCook, I believed my students could too and shared that belief on a regular basis. 

If you were ever one of my students, you heard me say, “Each of you needs to get some kind of training after high school.” 

I also said repeatedly, “Live somewhere else for a while and experience life. Then come back here to have a career and raise your family.” 

We need young adults to choose McCook. We are grateful for every MHS graduate who has chosen to stay and work in or own a business here. We are humbled by the number of our graduates who have chosen to get an education and come back home to invest in a future and raise their families.

Both the McCook Economic Development Corporation and the McCook Community Foundation Fund are working toward ways to attract more young people to transition into the existing downtown businesses. 

How do we encourage young people to consider becoming a jeweler, a clothing store owner, a boutique owner, or an architect?  How do we encourage young people to own their own auto-body shop, electrical, plumbing or construction company in Southwest Nebraska? 

One project MCFF is developing is the “Learn and Return” scholarship. The concept is that MCFF would partner with an existing McCook business with a specific job opening. 

For example, if a local business owner needed an auto technician, this business would help the future technician pay for college with the agreement that the technician would return and work for this company. Community Hospital and Hillcrest Nursing Home have similar programs already in place caressing healthcare needs. 

Do you know a young person who dreams of a career, but isn’t sure how to pay for the education? Do you own a business and want to investigate supporting a future employee as he/she gets his education and returns to your company? 

Not all my students were interested in a four-year college degree, nor should all follow that same path. That is why we need to create and promote different options for our students.

In my final “job” with ESU 15, I worked closely with MPCC, Mid Plains at North Platte, the Nebraska College of Technical Agriculture, and the McCook Beauty Academy to help students achieve education beyond high school. All these institutions are treasures. 

Skilled jobs and trades are in high demand. The financial rewards are outstanding and we need to make sure financial help is readily available to get started.

While the “Learn and Return” program is being developed, there are already scholarships in place to help further young people’s education.

MCFF has two scholarships that are available right now. Both the Barbara Fassler-Neuman scholarship and the Nelda Haag scholarship are open for application and have a March 31 deadline. 

McCook’s Masonic Lodge #135 offers $10,000 in scholarships annually. The Townsend scholarship pays for most of your college education, books, and a computer; just contact MNB Bank. 

Both the McCook Education Association and the Alpha Delta Kappa teachers’ organization offer scholarships for future educators. McCook’s PEO groups support scholarships and loans for women of all ages who want to further their education. Memorial United Methodist Church offers annual scholarships. These are just a few of the scholarships with which I am personally knowledgeable.

For parents and students, let me offer my scholarship advice: 

1. Scholarships are worth your time, no matter the amount. 

2. You do not have to be the top of the class or have the highest ACT score to be chosen; apply anyway. 

3. Adults need to be involved! Please help your student keep track of deadlines and to ensure that all parts of the scholarship are included in the final submission. 

4. Word process or type all applications. NEVER submit handwritten information.

5. If a letter of recommendation is required, choose persons who write well and who know you. (This cannot be a family member.) 

6.  If you need help proofreading, find someone you know who can help with this; proofread your submission. 

7.  Start keeping track of activities and awards in junior high. 

8. Start thinking about what makes YOU different from everyone else; do you have an unusual hobby or special interest? 

9.  Think about groups with whom you associate. Do they offer scholarships? 

10.  Drive the guidance office of your school crazy by checking on new scholarships that are available. 

11. Many of the institutions offer scholarships of their own; check with the schools you want to attend. 

McCook has so much to offer. We all know that once you live in McCook, you recognize it is a great community and you want to stay. If we want our young people to stay or return, we need to continue to make McCook an even better place to call home.

By Ronda Graff October 24, 2025
McCook's last hometown bakery closed this past week, leaving a void not just for donuts but for connections.
By Ronda Graff October 16, 2025
Many organizations and businesses in McCook offer the opportunity to recycle, reuse and repair items that may just end up in the trash.
By Ronda Graff October 13, 2025
Organizer for Buffalo Commons Storytelling Festival and former librarian named Oct 2025 volunteer of the month.
By Ronda Graff October 10, 2025
McCook's Third Thursdays were created to get businesses and organizations involved and designed to create life-long memories for the community.
By Ronda Graff October 2, 2025
Long-time community advocate Barb Ostrum received the Sept 2025 McCook Volunteer of the Month award.
By Peggy Been October 1, 2025
We need to celebrate our young people while they are here and encourage them to return.
By Ronda Graff September 29, 2025
While some like myself appreciate a rainy day, others dread them for a variety of reasons. We need to be empathetic as interact with others.
By Ronda Graff September 23, 2025
MCFF Fall Grant Deadline is Oct. 1. Complete list of former recipients on MCFF website
By Ronda Graff September 19, 2025
With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
Most likely, we aren't going to be good at something at the start. But that shouldn't stop us from trying.