As I write this column, fresh produce is overflowing on my kitchen counter. A watermelon threatens to roll off the table every time someone walks by. A bag of tomatoes awaits it fate after being missed as part of the last batch of homemade salsa. Every variety of pepper can be found among the multiple plastic bags scattered around the kitchen.

And the buckets and buckets of zucchini and squash sitting on the floor? What to say about those never-ending gourds except that they seem to keep appearing magically and are simply always around. As the joke goes, it’s that time of year when if you leave your vehicle (or in my case, my office door) unlocked, you’ll likely find produce left behind.

All of this is great problem to have because I don’t have a home garden, a very intentional decision. For years, I planted a garden, spending an obscene amount of money on plants and seeds, only to see the garden overtaken by weeds with little to no produce at the end of the growing season. I could have just buried the dollar bills in the ground and come out the same at the end of the growing season.

Along with the financial aspect, I don’t enjoy bending over to dig in the dirt or kneeling for hours to pull the weeds or wondering what animal is going rub my hand as I search for veggies under the giant leaves. Personally, that is not how I want to spend my time.

But there are plenty of people who live for gardening. They enjoy the feel of the warm earth falling between their fingers, they take pleasure in lugging a hose around their yard and they look forward to the sun beating down on their back as they ruffle through the plants, looking for the hidden veggies. Kudos to everyone who enjoys working in a garden and managed to have not only enough produce to feed themselves but to sell or giveaway to others.

On a side note, can someone explain why are veggies so hard to find in a garden, even a well-manicured plot of ground? The giant leaves hide the zucchini until they are so big that they are practically inedible. Beans blend in with the stems so they are overlooked, only to find dozens more just when you thought you were one. And watermelons look they are perfectly ripe on the stems, only to be cut open revealing a white, tasteless interior. It’s like these fruits and veggies don’t want us to eat them, despite that being their only purpose.

But I digress….

Instead of planting a garden, I visit the farmer’s markets and rely on friends and family to gift their leftover produce. Buying or accepting the excess produce is my way of supporting others, who take pride and joy in their gardening skills. And judging by my countertop, this year has been a bountiful year with fruits and veggies arriving nearly daily.

Essentially, I am benefitting from what others took the time to work on earlier in the year.

And we are blessed to have a robust farmer’s market in McCook every Saturday morning, where anyone can get the freshest produce possible.

Simply put, we are all benefitting from the work of others, in this case, benefitting from those with a green thumb.

Along those same lines, we all benefit in our communities from the work of others. No one lives in a bubble. We stand on the shoulders of those who came before us. Whatever analogy you want to use, we all live in a community that is better because of those who took the initiative to get things done, who made things happen in the past, who planted the seeds that grew into our community.

Moving forward, we are the people who need to plant the seeds to create the hometowns we want them to be. Each of us have unique skills that we can bring to the table to make our communities even better.

Maybe you are good at organizing events without breaking a sweat. Perhaps you know how to create a social media campaign in your sleep. Or you may be that person who just comes up with ideas but can get other people to do them. 

Everyone has a role to play in their community, whether it is volunteering at the Humane Society; coaching a flag football team, or attending the next local theatrical production (in this case Elf in mid-November at the Fox) to support those who have spent countless hours rehearsing.

By working together and sharing our skills and passions and ideas, we can make our hometown even better and we all benefit in the end.

By Ronda Graff October 24, 2025
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With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
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