Perhaps you are reading this column on the day it appears in the newspaper and is dropped on your

doorstep. It may be a day or two later when you read it after the paper arrives in the mail. Or it maybe

you are reading this online a few weeks or even months or years after it is published.

Regardless, I think we can all agree on one thing: holidays on a Wednesday are just a bit different and,

let’s be honest, a wee bit inconvenient.

Whether it is Christmas and New Year’s landing in the middle of the week or Fourth of July happening on

any day but a Friday or Saturday, the timing is a bit awkward.

For those working on Christmas Eve, you may be on the job but have so many questions running through

your head like are all the presents wrapped or will you be off work in time to get to church or is jellied or

whole cranberry sauce better? We can all have our opinions but there is little satisfaction like getting the

sauce out of the can with the smooth ridges in tact.

And then you enjoy the next 24 hours but the next night as Christmas day winds down, your older

children have likely returned to their home and you head to bed early because everyone has to get up

early the next day for work.

The next week, it happens all over again.

On New Year’s Eve as you sit at your desk, your mind wanders to thoughts about plans to ring in the new

year. Do have the ability to stay up until midnight or will you have to celebrate pacific time zone so you

can be in bed before 10 p.m.?

And if you can keep your eyes open until midnight, you likely will have to make up for it the next evening

by turning in early for work the next day.

All of this presumes that your family has been able to return home for the holidays. With such a short

turn-around, many families shifted their celebrations to the weekends before or after to eek out a few

more hours with each other or because there wasn’t time mid-week to return home and get back to work

the next day.

It would be great to have more time set aside to celebrate the holidays with our family members.

Thanksgiving is a great example because most people have four days to travel, celebrate and return

home.

But we aren’t moving Christmas off Dec. 25 and it seems tricky to have new year’s day on any other day

than the first day of the new year. So instead of lamenting the limited amount of time we have with friends

and family over the holidays, we need to take a moment to appreciate the short window of opportunities

we have provided.

It is the time we get to snuggle up on the couch and stay up late for a movie on Christmas Eve even

though there are presents still needing to be wrapped or breakfast will be delayed in the morning

because we were working the day before.

It’s the sounds as you try to go to bed at your regular time but your older kids and their friends stay up

late playing a game of Texas Hold-em at the dining room table that at first make you want to ask them to

be quiet but then make you treasure the moment knowing it will be over in the next day.

It’s the pile of shoes by the front door that you trip over coming into the house, cursing at first but then

realizing it won’t be like that in a few days because they’ve all left.

It’s the non-stop dirty dishes and constant cleaning up from one meal as you get ready to start on the

next that is unusual because you rarely cook a dinner every night much less three in one day like you

have the past two days but that it is worth it even for the shortened time together.

Having a holiday in the middle of the week may have its inconveniences, but it is outweighed by the

opportunities it provides to be with friends and family members that we don’t get any other time of the

year.

And if you are still looking for a reason to appreciate these mid-week holidays, think of it as four

shortened weeks for most people: a weekend, work a few days, take a day off, work a few days,

weekend again, work a few days, a day off, work a few days, weekend again.

Having the holidays may not be perfect but we just need to look for the silver linings in the situation.

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Whether you have friends and family in town or not over the next few weeks, there is plenty to do with

your extra time and to celebrate the upcoming holiday.

The McCook Rotary Club is hosting its second annual New Year’s Eve party, one of its annual fund-

raisers, on Tuesday, Dec. 31 from 8:30 p.m. to 12 a.m. midnight at the McCook City Auditorium. While

tickets can be bought at the door, organizers would prefer for people to pre-purchase tickets by visiting

the McCook Rotary Facebook page for a link.

With a western theme this year, attendees can dress up as much or as little as they would like, with jeans

the primary choice of attire. And for those who think midnight may be a bit too late to stay up in the

middle of the week, there are plans for a countdown at 11 p.m. when the eastern time zone rings in 2025,

although the champagne toast will be reserved for midnight in McCook.

The next day, the First Day Hike with the Nebraska Games and Park Commission returns to Red Willow

State Recreation Area north of McCook. Starting at 2:25 p.m. (in honor of 2025), walkers will take off

from Site 48 at the Willow Campground and walk the trails if there isn’t snow or the roads if we’ve

actually gotten moisture by then.

There is no registration needed or minimum miles you need to walk but everyone needs a Nebraska

State Park sticker or find a friend who has one. It is a great way to start off the year on a healthy and fun

note and you can still get to bed early enough to get to work the next day.

By Ronda Graff December 17, 2025
Linda Graff named McCook Volunteer of the Month for December 2025
By Ronda Graff December 15, 2025
By focusing on what is important, we can make an even better impact in our communities.
By Ronda Graff December 11, 2025
After a 10-year hiatus, the McCook Holiday Home Tours return focusing on downtown upstairs apartments.
By Ronda Graff November 25, 2025
While many people think volunteering is for older residents, serving your community has no age restrictions. And young people can regularly be found lending a hand or offering their services in their hometown. The November 2025 McCook Volunteer of the Month recognizes one of many young people are working to make their community an even better place to call home: Grady Riemenschneider. Currently a senior at McCook High School, Grady volunteers with a wide variety of organizations and groups. As a four-year member of the McCook Community Foundation Fund’s Youth Change Reaction, Grady serves as the ambassador for the youth group’s “Cars Under Stars,” the outdoor movie theater at the Red Willow County Fairgrounds. At nearly every showing, he can be found operating the projector and setting up the parking lot, as well as passing along his knowledge to the next ambassador. In McCook’s FFA program, Grady has held officer roles the past four years and is currently the chapter vice president, organized the chapter banquet in 2025 and coached for the conduct of chapter meetings. Along with serving as the president of the Driftwood Feeders 4-H Club, he assists with setup, tear down and fundraising for the dog show and helps fellow members train their dogs. Grady steps in to help and lead at local events, including Prairie Plains CASA’s Kick in’ It Up for CASA and the Cajun Broil; the Edward Jones Alzheimer’s Walk; operating sound boards for various groups; and Feed the Farmer. And he has served as a youth leader at McCook Christian Church for elementary youth since approximately 2018 as well as stepping up to ensure the ag program ran smoothly during a teacher’s maternity leave Upon request from his mother about some of Grady’s activities, Sharleen noted that he is the “Chief Household Operations Officer: first responder for Mom’s to-do list, go-to chauffeur and caretaker for his favorite sidekick (a.k.a. his nephew), and the family’s unofficial event planner who somehow keeps everyone together without a clipboard.” The McCook Philanthropy Council recognizes a volunteer every month who is doing good work in McCook and Red Willow County. If there is a volunteer in the community who should be recognized, please contact the McCook Chamber of Commerce at 308-345-3200 or visit McCook Volunteers on the McCook Community Foundation Fund’s website, mccookfoundation.org to complete a nomination form. The only requirement is that the nominee must be a resident of McCook or Red Willow County but please have information about the nominee along with where and how they volunteer in the community. The volunteer honoree is selected monthly by the McCook Philanthropy Council.
By Linda Taylor November 25, 2025
With the holiday's nearing, MCFF member and Mayor Linda Taylor reflects on the many things to be thankful in McCook.
By Ronda Graff November 22, 2025
The names of those people who have made a generational impact on McCook and Southwest Nebraska is a long list. Many of them are working day-in, day-out right now to make their mark on the community. And then there are those people who no longer call McCook home but still make an impact long after they are gone. Allen Strunk is one of those people. Allen passed away on Nov. 1 at his home in Las Vegas, Nevada but he never lost the love of his hometown. Born and raised in McCook, Allen was a member of an already well-known family, Harry and Arlene Strunk. The Strunks started and published the McCook Daily Gazette, with the motto, “Service is the rent we pay for the space we occupy in this world.” A saying that was so important that Harry had it etched at the top of his downtown newspaper office on Norris Avenue. That sense of service was passed along to Allen, who continued to serve his community as he took over leadership of the Gazette. I didn’t know Allen personally until he came back for visits years later. Even though my first job upon arriving in McCook was at the McCook Daily Gazette and Allen had turned over the publishing reins to Gene Morris many years prior, the Strunk legacy loomed large. He was instrumental in the building of the then-new YMCA, moving the facility from downtown to its current location next to the McCook High School. He was a key player in the new hospital, again moving from one location to a new expanded space. And McCook Community College benefitted his involvement in an expansion. Those projects continue to impact McCook today. And the support didn’t stop just because Allen retired from the Gazette and left McCook. There are programs the Strunks are involved in that benefit McCook and Southwest Nebraska. The Strunks continue to support Santa Claus Lane, which is overseen by the McCook Chamber of Commerce. And which after a few years of decline is seeing a resurgence of enthusiasm and nostalgia for the decorative holiday pieces lining Norris Avenue. Allen funds the annual McCook Area Outstanding Teacher award, which provides a financial prize to several teachers every year. And Allen recognized the work of the McCook Community Foundation Fund, providing a donation several years ago so that he could see its impact while he was still alive. This has led MCFF to consider how they will recognize and remember Allen for years to come. Because of his belief in service to his community, this could mean more recognition for the countless volunteers who keep our community thriving. It could be a day of community service, to see how many people can come together to make something happen. It could be a celebration for all the great things happening in our community. During Allen’s memorial service this past week in McCook, his step-daughter-in-law read the poem, “The Dash" by Linda Ellis, who published it in 1996. It reflects on the meaning of the dash between the birth and death dates on a tombstone. The dash is a reminder of everything that happens between the moment a person is born and the moment a person dies. The dash emphasizes the importance of how one lives their life during that time. The dash prompts a person to think about living, rather than worrying about dying. Ultimately, the dash is where all the good - and the bad - happens. And Allen Strunk made the most of his “dash,” both in his community and within his family. We can’t all run a newspaper. We likely aren’t going to etch our favorite saying into a building. But we all need to consider how we are paying the “rent for the space we occupy in this world.” And we can all make a difference in our hometowns, whether we currently live in them or even if we haven’t stepped foot on the main street in years. 
By Ronda Graff November 18, 2025
SWNE Big Give Passes $400,000 for First Time in 10 Year History
By Ronda Graff November 14, 2025
Everyone feels a need to be needed and it is shown through the Big Give and Meal Kit Giveaways
By Ronda Graff November 7, 2025
SWNE Big Give reaches new heights thanks to enthusiasm of organizations, individuals and businesses
By Ronda Graff November 7, 2025
Food pantries are seeing an increased need, which means the community must step up with donations of food and time to help those who struggle to put food on the table.