There are phrases which can say a lot about a community:

“That’s how we’ve always done it.”

“We’re getting by.”

And the saying which can perhaps keep a community from growing and thriving: It’s “good enough.” 

This phrase can come in various forms but usually refers to when the speaker was younger or when their parents were around. It was “good enough” for me when I was a kid. Why isn’t it good enough for today’s kids?

The phrase has been applied lately to several situations. 

The pool was good enough for me when I was a kid. Why isn’t it good enough for today’s kids? 

The schools were just fine for me when they were built in 1967. Why do we need new ones?

Why do kids need all this technology? Pen and paper was good enough for me. 

Whether we like it or not, times change. 

We must be willing to both change and adapt. We must look down the road and plan ahead. We must consider what is needed to meet today’s ever changing world.

This doesn’t mean everything we’ve done in the past is wrong or shouldn’t continue. But we must acknowledge where change is needed, where growth needs to happen and where we need to adapt to our evolving society. 

Life is not stagnant. Communities are never the same, even day to day. Every day, we make decisions which affect not only ourselves but those around us. 

We choose whether to pick up that piece of trash on the sidewalk or leave it for someone else to step over. We choose whether to run for public office or let someone else make those decisions. We choose whether to shop locally or spend those dollars out of town.

Those decisions add up and determine whether we are just “good enough” or making our community the best it can be for generations to come.

McCook and southwest Nebraska is not the same as it was five years ago, 10 years ago, 100 years ago. And thank goodness. 

When it came time to pave Main Street in McCook, do you think people were saying “these dirt roads are good enough?” Perhaps there were those nay-sayers, but could you imagine if Norris Avenue was still a dirt road down the center of town?

Many people have fond memories of the YMCA at its first location on Norris Avenue, but its current site offers so many more possibilities.

And can you picture Southwest Nebraska without Heritage Hills, the Kiplinger Arena or the surrounding lakes (even if they are lacking in water)? None of those things just happened. It was people who said what was available was not “good enough.” They wanted more. They wanted it better for themselves and for others. 

For too long, we have been saying what we have and what we are doing is “good enough” and it has caught up to us. McCook has a lot of projects - large projects - looming on the horizon because we have kicked the can down the road for too long. We have said we’ll get to it; we don’t need it; or what we have is “good enough.”

But eventually that mentality catches up and now we must pay the piper. We can no longer accept that way of thinking. 

“Good enough” is no longer good enough. If we want our community to be here 5, 10, 100 years from now, we must change our way of thinking. We must think long term. We must think positively. And we must think about what would make our children want to raise their children here because thanks to technology, people can live just about anywhere they want. 

Yes, housing is a problem and the McCook Economic Development Corp. is taking intentional steps to address the issue. “Now Hiring” signs can be found in the front window of most businesses. And while child care availability has improved, there is still plenty to be done. 

But if we want people -both young and old - to move to McCook and Southwest Nebraska, we need to no longer think that “good enough” is good enough. 

We can be better than that; we are better than that. We’ve proven it. It is why Big Give McCook has grown year after year. Because this is a generous community. It is why when there is a disaster like the grassfires earlier this year, people stepped up with donations and offers of help. 

It is time to no longer accept “good enough” as good enough. We have the opportunity to make our community even better by tackling these hard projects. Yes, these projects are not cheap nor easy but isn’t our community worth the investment? Aren’t our family and friends worth it? Isn’t our future worth more than “good enough?”

By Ronda Graff April 25, 2025
Jeremy Shaw named April 2025 McCook Volunteer of the Month
By Ronda Graff April 25, 2025
While the Bison Alumni Newsletter will still be available digitally, a new printed service is available.
By Ronda Graff April 21, 2025
During a recent performance at the Fox Theater by the Lied's Arts Across Nebraska, there was one group who was not thanked: those who showed up for the event, which is a big deal.
By Ronda Graff April 10, 2025
Mark Friehe named March McCook Volunteer of the Month.
By Mike Bodensteiner April 7, 2025
Although the Bodensteiners no longer live in Southwest Nebraska, they are still connected and wanted to see if prosper and thrive.
By Ronda Graff April 7, 2025
From long-term projects to weekly events, you cannot say "there is nothing to do" or "nothing is happening."
By Ronda Graff March 31, 2025
With the goal of reaching 200 subscriptions, the Bison Alumni Newsletter is launching a subscription service.
By Ronda Graff March 26, 2025
Long-time volunteer Don Harpst was recognized as the first McCook Volunteer of the Month in March 2025.
By Ronda Graff March 21, 2025
McCook's youth survey shows that young people now value safety in their community, something McCook provides.
By Pam Wolford March 14, 2025
Building Connections in McCook Matters June in McCook will be abuzz with fun events including a Youth Summit, hosted by McCook Community Foundation Fund. Our young people in Youth Change Reaction will host the first Nebraska Community Foundation gathering for youth, which will bring youth from across Nebraska to McCook. While still in the planning stages, our students identified that McCook is great because of connections . Our young people easily recognize how critical this factor is to people attraction, to people retention, and to improve their futures. What I miss most about my high school classroom is connections with students and colleagues. In education, I taught first, second, and sometimes third generations in families. My husband, Greg, and I are not McCook natives, but I eventually knew who was related to whom and usually where the parent(s) were employed. Going to the grocery store meant greetings from students and sometimes their family members. I officially retired from my high school classroom nine years ago in May. When you retire, the most-asked question becomes “What do you do with your time?” I try to maintain those connections and make new ones by belonging. For the past seven years, Sharon Bohling and I have volunteered to help plan and organize Bison Days for our high school students, which took place February 10 and 11. It would not happen without the financial support of McCook Community Foundation Fund, plus the McCook High School, local businesses, and the talented people of Southwest Nebraska who say “yes” when one of us reaches out to ask for the donation of time and talent. I would venture that they allow us to be on the Bison Days’ committee because we both have connections within our community—it’s certainly not our computer savvy. Connections can also solve a problem. Recently, I signed up to help a local family in crisis. My morning plan revolved around delivering my donation at a designated drop-off place. That didn’t work out. Fortunately, I still work with youth in various capacities, so I know that Keri Wilkinson works for Camy Bradley. Keri was an organizer for the family fundraiser, so I walked in Camy’s office hoping to find Keri. She was not there, so Camy and I visited briefly. She knew someone (who I did not know) who could possibly give me further direction. Only in a town with connections are you able to interrupt someone’s business, have her reach out for you using her connections , and offer to keep the donations for me until Keri’s return. Another great example of connecting can be found over coffee. Dee Friehe and I are longtime teacher friends. During a chance meeting at the grocery store a few weeks ago, she shared how she was there following a funeral service and was gathering supplies to deliver supper to the grieving family that night. She also updated me on her group of adults who meet for coffee on Thursdays at Ember’s, which varies from 8-28 depending on the day. She recognized the need for adults moving to McCook or folks just wanting to get out to make connections . Dee’s husband, Mark, also hosts his own group of men who are new(er) to McCook. She regaled me with stories of their Christmas party and other special gatherings. Wanting to call McCook your home is solidified by building connections . Ronda Graff has written about McCook Connects which matches a McCook person with someone new to the community of similar interests. I earned my McCook Connects’ T-shirt welcoming a young family with children. We have since spent many hot summer days sitting on bleachers together cheering on our 4-H horse kids while they show their horses. Warning: I connected them with a “free” new-to-them horse. Be careful connecting with me or you’ll probably own a horse. You do not have to be retired to connect in this community. Volunteering is a surefire way to meet people. McCook has many civic groups looking for new faces. Attend a church here; we have many welcoming congregations. Go to ball games or school concerts, attend concerts in the park, learn a new skill through the college, show up at a Third Thursday event or invite the neighbors for a BBQ. Take your youngsters to story hour or Move and Groove at the library. Go watch an event at the Kiplinger Arena. You can even take it a step further: Make a friend or call a friend and invite him/her to go with you. It is human connection that keeps us healthy and happy. If McCook Community Foundation Fund can help you connect in some meaningful way, please reach out for advice or support. *** While Pam Wolford may be retired, she is just as busy serving on the McCook Community Foundation Fund committee and started a new Learn and Return Scholarship with MCFF, while stepping up to grandparent whenever the call comes in.
More Posts