There are phrases which can say a lot about a community:

“That’s how we’ve always done it.”

“We’re getting by.”

And the saying which can perhaps keep a community from growing and thriving: It’s “good enough.” 

This phrase can come in various forms but usually refers to when the speaker was younger or when their parents were around. It was “good enough” for me when I was a kid. Why isn’t it good enough for today’s kids?

The phrase has been applied lately to several situations. 

The pool was good enough for me when I was a kid. Why isn’t it good enough for today’s kids? 

The schools were just fine for me when they were built in 1967. Why do we need new ones?

Why do kids need all this technology? Pen and paper was good enough for me. 

Whether we like it or not, times change. 

We must be willing to both change and adapt. We must look down the road and plan ahead. We must consider what is needed to meet today’s ever changing world.

This doesn’t mean everything we’ve done in the past is wrong or shouldn’t continue. But we must acknowledge where change is needed, where growth needs to happen and where we need to adapt to our evolving society. 

Life is not stagnant. Communities are never the same, even day to day. Every day, we make decisions which affect not only ourselves but those around us. 

We choose whether to pick up that piece of trash on the sidewalk or leave it for someone else to step over. We choose whether to run for public office or let someone else make those decisions. We choose whether to shop locally or spend those dollars out of town.

Those decisions add up and determine whether we are just “good enough” or making our community the best it can be for generations to come.

McCook and southwest Nebraska is not the same as it was five years ago, 10 years ago, 100 years ago. And thank goodness. 

When it came time to pave Main Street in McCook, do you think people were saying “these dirt roads are good enough?” Perhaps there were those nay-sayers, but could you imagine if Norris Avenue was still a dirt road down the center of town?

Many people have fond memories of the YMCA at its first location on Norris Avenue, but its current site offers so many more possibilities.

And can you picture Southwest Nebraska without Heritage Hills, the Kiplinger Arena or the surrounding lakes (even if they are lacking in water)? None of those things just happened. It was people who said what was available was not “good enough.” They wanted more. They wanted it better for themselves and for others. 

For too long, we have been saying what we have and what we are doing is “good enough” and it has caught up to us. McCook has a lot of projects - large projects - looming on the horizon because we have kicked the can down the road for too long. We have said we’ll get to it; we don’t need it; or what we have is “good enough.”

But eventually that mentality catches up and now we must pay the piper. We can no longer accept that way of thinking. 

“Good enough” is no longer good enough. If we want our community to be here 5, 10, 100 years from now, we must change our way of thinking. We must think long term. We must think positively. And we must think about what would make our children want to raise their children here because thanks to technology, people can live just about anywhere they want. 

Yes, housing is a problem and the McCook Economic Development Corp. is taking intentional steps to address the issue. “Now Hiring” signs can be found in the front window of most businesses. And while child care availability has improved, there is still plenty to be done. 

But if we want people -both young and old - to move to McCook and Southwest Nebraska, we need to no longer think that “good enough” is good enough. 

We can be better than that; we are better than that. We’ve proven it. It is why Big Give McCook has grown year after year. Because this is a generous community. It is why when there is a disaster like the grassfires earlier this year, people stepped up with donations and offers of help. 

It is time to no longer accept “good enough” as good enough. We have the opportunity to make our community even better by tackling these hard projects. Yes, these projects are not cheap nor easy but isn’t our community worth the investment? Aren’t our family and friends worth it? Isn’t our future worth more than “good enough?”

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With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
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