You have likely heard the maxim: It takes a village to raise a child. The meaning is that the whole community impacts and influences the growth of each child - both positively and negatively - through its support, encouragement, love, nurture and even discipline.

I would like you to consider a variation of that saying: It takes a community to build a hometown.  

The same is true for a hometown – all the residents impact and influence what kind of hometown we have and will have. Is our hometown all that you can imagine it to be?  

Are we supporting our hometown by participating in its planning and governance? Do we help plan and attend community activities? Do we volunteer among the many groups working to enhance our hometown? Do we take pride in our homes, businesses, neighborhoods and parks by making them attractive and safe for all?  

A few years ago, the McCook Community Foundation Fund’s advisory committee set up a couple “idea trees” to collect suggestions from residents on what could be enhanced or added to make McCook a better place to call home. I remember that two suggestions quickly outnumbered the many - a new city pool and a dog park.  

At that point, the city pool had been under discussion for many years, while the dog park was a relatively new idea. The amazing thing is that by writing them down on paper, actively talking about them among friends, and focusing new attention on them, they both became a reality. 

The same thing happened again when a group of people decided to make the expansion of the outdoor pickle-ball courts a priority. In a very short time, they provided the community with three beautiful courts on East 5th Street.  

Most recently, there is a group of young people intent on bringing a second disc golf course that will allow more individuals to play and possibly open McCook to having tournaments. What an inspiration these folks are to all of us!

Jeff Yost, CEO of the Nebraska Community Foundation, often relates: “Change – when it’s personal, it’s important; when it’s important, it gets done.”

Wherever you live, you are part of a community. Each of us is part of a hometown. And ultimately, it takes a whole community to make a hometown whole. 

Take a moment to answer these questions:

What would you personally like to see your hometown be?

What would you like for it to provide? 

What is personal to you? 

What is important to you that you are willing to work to get done? 

How would you like to get involved to make that happen?  

MCFF wants to hear ideas from everyone in the community. This is an invitation to let your voice be heard. 

Together, we can accomplish so much. I hope you will step forward and help keep building a hometown that is a better place to call home.

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Peggy Been is technically retired but is perhaps busier than ever, serving on MCFF’s Advisory Committee along with volunteering throughout the community. 

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By Ronda Graff September 19, 2025
With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
Most likely, we aren't going to be good at something at the start. But that shouldn't stop us from trying.