In October, Norris Avenue was shut down for several hours as the Heritage Days parade streamed down

McCook’s main street. People lined the streets for blocks with kids darting after candy while adults visited

with friends and neighbors as part of the McCook Chamber’s annual event.

Less than a week later, an entire block of Norris Avenue was again cut off from vehicle traffic for the

McCook Community Foundation Fund’s annual Community Celebration, an evening of fun, music, games

and food.

Then in December, traffic came to a halt through downtown McCook as the Christmas parade took over

the street on a beautiful December evening. I should say that traffic “mostly” came to a halt. There was

one unfortunate driver who somehow found themselves in the middle of the parade, stuck between a

trailer pulling a fully-lit Christmas tree and in front of a public power district truck with the boom ladder

hovering close to the back window the undecorated sedan. Most likely, the older couple most likely just

wanted to get to the Mexican restaurant but somehow became entry No. 8 in the parade.

And prior to and following the Christmas parade, the streets around Norris Park were cordoned off with

cones so the horse-drawn carriages could safely travel around the square.

Some might see shutting down the streets for these events as an inconvenience. Perhaps even going so

far as to say that the disruption isn’t worth the benefit.

But anyone standing on the sidewalk after the holiday parade would have heard both the young and old

alike saying they wished the parade had gone on longer and they appreciated the effort which went into

making Noel on Norris happen. During the community celebration, kids wandered up and down the bricks

from game to game or stopped by the portable dance floor in the middle of the street. And every year

after the Heritage Days parade, people linger on the sidewalks talking to friends they hadn’t likely seen in

months.

These are some of the best days in the community and why? Because all of these events promote

gathering together as a community and they provide a reason to get out of your vehicle and enjoy what is

taking place.

Why would we not want every day to be like this?

I’m not talking about full-blown events every day of the year, but instead creating an atmosphere where

people want to do these things on a regular basis. For a few nights during the year, they were willing to

give up their video games for the night, they stepped away from their streaming television shows, they

quit staring at their phones for a few hours. We need to consider how to create a community where

people are willing to do that on a regular basis.

And we have these events to learn from.

Because of these events, we know that people are willing to walk to get to where they are going rather

than having to park directly in front of the store or restaurant they are going to. This means that

converting parking spaces into outdoor sitting areas could be an option.

Because of these events, we know that people want areas to gather and hang out. This means creating

spaces with benches and tables where lunches can happen and conversations can take place.

Because of these events, we know that people want to do things together. This means that we need

creative activities readily available such as giant chess sets in the park for families to play together or

pianos along the sidewalk to tinkle a toon as you walk by.

All of these events show that it is possible to change things up, that people want to do things, that they

want to be out and about in their community, that they want their community to be successful. Moving

forward, we need to figure out how to take the enthusiasm and excitement at a holiday parade and apply

it to everyday in our community.

As we celebrate the holiday season with family and friends, we need to take a few moments to be

thankful for everything we have and we can reflect on all that we accomplished to make our community

one to be proud to call home.

And as we prepare for the upcoming year, we can look forward to several projects already in the works

which may bring significant change to the community. These are changes which will make us appreciate

what we already have in place, improvements which will make us better utilize what has already been

accomplished and additions that will make McCook and Southwest Nebraska an even better place to call

home.

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By Ronda Graff September 19, 2025
With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
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