In October, Norris Avenue was shut down for several hours as the Heritage Days parade streamed down

McCook’s main street. People lined the streets for blocks with kids darting after candy while adults visited

with friends and neighbors as part of the McCook Chamber’s annual event.

Less than a week later, an entire block of Norris Avenue was again cut off from vehicle traffic for the

McCook Community Foundation Fund’s annual Community Celebration, an evening of fun, music, games

and food.

Then in December, traffic came to a halt through downtown McCook as the Christmas parade took over

the street on a beautiful December evening. I should say that traffic “mostly” came to a halt. There was

one unfortunate driver who somehow found themselves in the middle of the parade, stuck between a

trailer pulling a fully-lit Christmas tree and in front of a public power district truck with the boom ladder

hovering close to the back window the undecorated sedan. Most likely, the older couple most likely just

wanted to get to the Mexican restaurant but somehow became entry No. 8 in the parade.

And prior to and following the Christmas parade, the streets around Norris Park were cordoned off with

cones so the horse-drawn carriages could safely travel around the square.

Some might see shutting down the streets for these events as an inconvenience. Perhaps even going so

far as to say that the disruption isn’t worth the benefit.

But anyone standing on the sidewalk after the holiday parade would have heard both the young and old

alike saying they wished the parade had gone on longer and they appreciated the effort which went into

making Noel on Norris happen. During the community celebration, kids wandered up and down the bricks

from game to game or stopped by the portable dance floor in the middle of the street. And every year

after the Heritage Days parade, people linger on the sidewalks talking to friends they hadn’t likely seen in

months.

These are some of the best days in the community and why? Because all of these events promote

gathering together as a community and they provide a reason to get out of your vehicle and enjoy what is

taking place.

Why would we not want every day to be like this?

I’m not talking about full-blown events every day of the year, but instead creating an atmosphere where

people want to do these things on a regular basis. For a few nights during the year, they were willing to

give up their video games for the night, they stepped away from their streaming television shows, they

quit staring at their phones for a few hours. We need to consider how to create a community where

people are willing to do that on a regular basis.

And we have these events to learn from.

Because of these events, we know that people are willing to walk to get to where they are going rather

than having to park directly in front of the store or restaurant they are going to. This means that

converting parking spaces into outdoor sitting areas could be an option.

Because of these events, we know that people want areas to gather and hang out. This means creating

spaces with benches and tables where lunches can happen and conversations can take place.

Because of these events, we know that people want to do things together. This means that we need

creative activities readily available such as giant chess sets in the park for families to play together or

pianos along the sidewalk to tinkle a toon as you walk by.

All of these events show that it is possible to change things up, that people want to do things, that they

want to be out and about in their community, that they want their community to be successful. Moving

forward, we need to figure out how to take the enthusiasm and excitement at a holiday parade and apply

it to everyday in our community.

As we celebrate the holiday season with family and friends, we need to take a few moments to be

thankful for everything we have and we can reflect on all that we accomplished to make our community

one to be proud to call home.

And as we prepare for the upcoming year, we can look forward to several projects already in the works

which may bring significant change to the community. These are changes which will make us appreciate

what we already have in place, improvements which will make us better utilize what has already been

accomplished and additions that will make McCook and Southwest Nebraska an even better place to call

home.

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