In 1999, I was a young mom with a three-year-old and two-year-old and third child on the way. I was writing news stories and a column for the Gazette on a regular basis. And I had lived in McCook for less than five years. 

All of those reasons probably led to why I was appointed to the city of McCook’s new swimming pool advisory committee. This was the group that needed to decide what to do with the then-relatively young 65 year old city pool. 

The pool was leaking water on a daily basis. There were no built-in amenities that young families were looking for to entertain their children at the pool. There was no zero-depth area for our littlest residents and for those with special needs to safely enter the water, like at a beach. And perhaps the biggest issue was the water leaking on a daily basis, which meant water was added constantly and which is what kept the water cold despite the warm summer sunshine. 

In the end, the committee voted to throw some money - a not insignificant $1 million - to put a band-aid on the problem. Yes, it bought another 20 years of use from the pool, but essentially the problem was just kicked down the road. 

Very few new features were added. Zero-depth was not incorporated. And ironically, the water leak was never solved, so the pool was still bone-chillingly cold throughout the summer. 

Looking back and even immediately after, I wish I had fought harder at that point for a new pool. 

I am so grateful that McCook is finally getting the new pool that our community deserves. But a generation of residents, including most of my kids, missed out on having a pool that they wanted to go to rather than a pool that was “good enough.” 

What would McCook look like if we had made the investment 20 years ago in a new pool? Would we have more residents now? Would we have more young families who saw that the community was willing to invest in itself and make it an appealing place to grow up in? Would we be known as a community on the move? 

We can’t change history but we can change how we move forward with our thinking and our choices.

Not everyone will use the new pool, but the new pool makes a statement. It says that we want to have nice - and yes, pretty - things for our community. It says that we need these things to invest the workers that we need for the jobs that our open at all our businesses. It says that our kids our worth making a financial sacrifice for. 

We are constantly making choices. But as we make these choices, are we thinking about how it will affect us tomorrow or five years from now? As we make decisions, we need to apply the statement: “This would be a different place if…”

Everywhere you look, there is evidence of things getting done to make our community a different place and also examples of things not getting done, leaving it the same as it was yesterday.

Imagine what McCook and Red Willow County would look like if Tom Kiplinger had decided not to invest in his community. Yes, we would still have a fairgrounds but it would look like a vastly different place. There wouldn’t be horse trailer after horse trailer streaming into town to take advantage of the facilities or events booked in the buildings every weekend. Instead, the decision was made to make the investment at the fairgrounds and today it is a different place. 

Conversely, imagine what McCook would look like if we had followed through on the 10-plus miles of walking trails around the community instead of just the 1.5 miles that are in place. Families would be walking around at night, pushing their toddlers in strollers. Kids would be biking to their friends house. Runners and walkers would be safely on trails rather than endangering themselves on the streets. Thankfully, there is movement to get the trails expanded and make this a different place. 

Imagine what McCook would look like if voters hadn’t approved the bond issue for the new swimming pool and ballparks. Yes, we would still have a pool at the YMCA and the ballfields would still be usable around the community, but it would be sending a vastly different message. We aren’t willing to invest or sacrifice for our future and for the next generation. Instead, we will have a new, bright, glistening pool in early July and hopefully new ballfields and green space for other sports in the near future and this will be a different place. 

Everywhere we look, we can see decisions made by the people who came before us. Some of those decisions made it better for us. Some of those decisions made it harder for us. As we move forward, we need to keep in mind what our decisions will do for the future generations. 

Maybe it is a simple as a well-placed sign to get visitors to the new pool. Or it is as big as renovating the entire downtown and burying electrical lines to create an inviting and welcoming atmosphere to hang out. 

Each and everyone one of us sets the tone for our community with our decisions. This could be a different place if we think about how our decisions and actions affect those coming after us. We are the ones who get to make our community a different place. Now, it is just deciding what that place looks like.This 

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By Ronda Graff September 19, 2025
With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
Most likely, we aren't going to be good at something at the start. But that shouldn't stop us from trying.