Did instant gratification begin with the microwave when cooking a meal went from an hour to mere minutes?

Can our desire to see and do everything now be blamed on automobiles, giving us personal access to go wherever we want?

Are our shortened attention spans blamed on these giant advances in technology, making it possible to have almost endless entertainment and information at our fingertips?

We live in a word of instant gratification, where waiting for something to happen is seen as a negative or working for something over the long haul is seen as drudgery.

But what would happen if we shifted that thinking to celebrating or at least accepting incremental progress - or change over the long haul?  

It is great to see huge strides in improvement but that isn’t usually how things happen.

Instead, progress is small and tiny or slow and steady.

For a wonderful example, look at Rosa Parks. 

If you didn’t attend any of the Nebraska Chautauqua events in McCook this last weekend, you missed out. There were wonderful, fun events and enthusiastic, informational speakers, bringing the 1950s to life.  

One of them was Becky Stone, who portrayed Rosa Parks. Most people know the story of Rosa not giving up her seat on a bus in Montgomery, Alabama in 1955 and the boycotts and eventual changes to the system that happened afterward.

But did you know that she also got kicked off the bus in 1943 for refusing to move to the back of the bus (or more specifically for sitting in the same row as a white man)? 

12 years. 12 years between these events. But still she persisted. She didn’t give up.

Instead, she quietly and methodically fought for what she knew was right over the years and over her entire lifetime. 

Yes, there is a time and a need for immediate action but as the Rosa Park story shows, even those actions require years of perseverance afterward.

Of course, we would love to see things happen over night. We would like for projects to happen instantaneously. We would life for funding to magically appear. 

But that is like winning the lottery. It happens rarely and to very few people. 

Instead, projects take time and research and careful consideration before moving forward. 

It’s Aesop’s fable of the tortoise and the hare. While the hare bragged about how fast he was and proved it at the beginning of the race, eventually he tired and needed a rest. The tortoise was slow and methodical, eventually passing the hare and winning the race. 

But for a more modern interpretation, consider the situation McCook finds itself in.  

McCook is looking at moving forward on one of its biggest projects in years with the building of a new outdoor swimming pool and possibly developing an entirely new area for ballparks and green space.

This is long overdue, but any progress is better than none at all. 

There has been years of research, hours and hours of meetings and endless discussions about not just these recreational projects but also walking trails, pickle ball courts, basketball courts and playgrounds. 

And now that dedication to these projects may finally come to fruition. It hasn’t happened yet, but there is movement. Small movement but movement nonetheless which will hopefully turn into large achievements in the near future. 

It is true that we occasionally need that instant gratification. But true, long-lasting progress happens slowly and steadily over time by dedicated individuals, dedicated communities, dedicated organizations who are working together to make McCook an even better place to call home. 

By Ronda Graff October 24, 2025
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By Ronda Graff October 13, 2025
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By Ronda Graff October 10, 2025
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By Ronda Graff October 2, 2025
Long-time community advocate Barb Ostrum received the Sept 2025 McCook Volunteer of the Month award.
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By Ronda Graff September 29, 2025
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By Ronda Graff September 23, 2025
MCFF Fall Grant Deadline is Oct. 1. Complete list of former recipients on MCFF website
By Ronda Graff September 19, 2025
With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
Most likely, we aren't going to be good at something at the start. But that shouldn't stop us from trying.