Earlier this year, my husband and I had the privilege of buying a building on Norris Avenue. If I had a dollar for every time someone asked, “What are you going to do with the building?” I would have enough money to renovate the site or at least put on a new coat of paint.

While we are still determining what is the best fit for the community, we didn’t want the building to sit empty or unused.

So while the building at 416 Norris is not perfect - heck, we’re not even done demolishing - the site will be used tonight for a student art show led by the McCook Arts Council (MAC). The show is part of McCook’s “An Evening of Arts” for Big Give McCook, which will showcase just a few of the nonprofits involved in the one day of giving with a focus on arts and culture.

Along with family and friends of the student artists, the public is invited to stop by and see for themselves how creative and artistic our young people are. The student art show will be open from 5-9 p.m. today (and 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Friday). 

As an added bonus, MAC will be providing appetizers and drinks as the public views the art pieces. And the site will be an in-person giving station and power hour from 6-7 p.m. for Big Give McCook.

Am I worried about inviting people into an unfinished building? Not at all. All of the nicks and dings in the walls add character. 

In fact, not all of the plaster has been removed as we exposed more of the brick walls - and we’ll likely leave it like that because it shows the history of the building. The kitchen sink in the back of the building has a constant drip that will be fixed, but at least we’re assured that we have water in the facility. And the light in the restroom? Sometimes it works; sometimes it doesn’t. Regardless, it will be an adventure until the site is finished. 

Like most things in life, if we waited until everything was perfect, we’d never do anything. Instead, we need to take the leap and do things now.

And today - Big Give McCook 2021 - is a great example of just doing things now, rather than waiting for the perfect time.

Now in its sixth year, most people have at least heard of the one-day giving event. More than 30 nonprofit organizations benefit from donations given from midnight to midnight as part of Big Give McCook. 

But you may be saying to yourself, “This isn’t a great time for me to make a donation,” “Times are tough.” “We barely have enough money to support ourselves, much less others.”

Very rarely is there a perfect time for anything and it doesn’t take much to make a difference.

When Big Give began in 2015, organizers considered calling it Give Big McCook. But that was not what the day was about. Yes, large donations are accepted, appreciated and needed. 

Instead, the Community Chest volunteers wanted to create an opportunity where everyone could get involved, where everyone could feel like a philanthropist for the day, where everyone could make an impact. Because every donation matters. Every dollar helps these organizations. Every donor makes a difference.

And it’s not just money that you can give big. This is also an opportunity to give of your time and talent.

The Big Give McCook website, www.biggivemccook.org, lists information about each organization, including what they do, the projects they are working on, and how to contact them. Consider visiting the website just to find out more about the organizations to see what fits your passion. There isn’t an organization out there which wouldn’t take more volunteers, which doesn’t need more advocates, which couldn’t use more support. 

Before anyone says that this isn’t the perfect time to give of their treasure, to give of their time or to give of their talent, consider this final thought.

Exercising on a regular basis can be tedious and arduous. We know working out is good for us, but there are some days that you just don’t want to go to the gym. But we drag ourselves out to the track for a run or to the pool for a swim. And when it is over, rarely - if ever - does someone regret doing that workout. In fact, we almost always feel better afterward.

The same holds true for giving a donation. While it may seem arduous to give a donation sometimes, we rarely regret giving to something that matters. In fact, we almost always feel better afterward - sometimes even better than the recipient. 

So consider giving a donation today as part of Big Give McCook, where each of us can do our part to make McCook an even better place to call home.

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With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
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