The Omaha World-Herald reported on Jan. 5th that Nebraska’s level of ‘brain drain’ outmigration is now one of the worst in the nation, based upon the percentage of the population, and is continuing down a long-term unfavorable trend.

At both the state and local level, it is getting ever more challenging to attract and retain workers. And that competition is not going to ease anytime soon due to significant demographic challenges.   

But we can’t just throw in the towel. Instead, it is time to roll up our sleeves and figure out solutions - creative, innovative, long-lasting ideas to address the issues.

For starters, we, as a community, must work together to take advantages of our community’s strengths and make our community an even better place to call home.  While this effort will need to be comprehensive and have many parts, one of the key pieces is making our community more welcoming, something each of us can contribute to.

But how do we make our community more welcoming? And who can we be welcoming to?

We may think everyone we see around town has been here for many years. However, we underestimate the numbers of new people who arrive in our community every year. 

Right before Christmas, the U.S. Census Bureau released the State-to-County Migration Flows for the five-year period of 2017-2021. Based on their records, Red Willow County had 797 people move here from another county, state, or country; and another 668 people changed residences within the county. 

Of the people who moved here during that time, 526 came from other counties in Nebraska, 85 from Kansas, 45 from Oklahoma, 36 from both Colorado and Missouri, with other states making up the remaining 43. An additional 26 moved here from another country.   

That is roughly a new person moving to our county every other day. How many of these new people have you met? How well do each of us do at welcoming them into our social circles? What are we doing to help them feel welcome here?

Consider who made you feel welcomed when you were new to a community, whether it was starting at a new school, moving away from home from college, or starting a new job in a brand-new town. What made you feel like you belonged? Who reached out to you to make you feel welcomed? How did the community welcome you? Use those experiences to welcome others to our community.

If we want to make our community a place where young people and families want to live, let’s start with ourselves to create a community we want to belong to and place where we feel welcome. And then we take the next step and help others feel like they belong and that they are welcomed.

As it is the season of reflection and New Year’s resolutions, consider reaching out to someone who is new to our community, whether it is at your workplace, in your neighborhood, or at your church. Welcoming gestures, something as simple as taking them out for coffee or inviting them to an exercise class, can go a long way in making our community a more welcoming place for people new to our community.

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Sean Wolfe is the newest member of the McCook Community Foundation Fund Advisory Committee, as well as the Chief Financial Officer at Community Hospital in McCook, and brings a passion for not only numbers and finances but also people and the community.

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By Ronda Graff September 19, 2025
With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
Most likely, we aren't going to be good at something at the start. But that shouldn't stop us from trying.