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At 11:30 p.m. Sunday, bright lights swept through my bedroom window, waking me from my

sleep. I rolled out of bed to see a combine cutting through the first row of stalks in the field

across from my house.

The harvest had begun. At 11:30 p.m. On a Sunday.

As I left the house at 5 a.m. the next morning, I glanced to my left for oncoming traffic and could

see the combine still at work. Now a few rows deeper into the large field, they had worked

throughout the night.

Only after I pulled up the weather forecast did I see what the workers likely already knew: rain

was predicted in the upcoming days. Despite the damage from the hail storm the week before,

they were trying to salvage their months of hard work in the field and Mother Nature was

sending another roadblock with a day-long soaking of rain.

While I was looking forward to a day filled with rain because it forces me to stay inside and get

things done, not everyone feels the same way I do. The workers had given up a night of sleep to

try and beat the impending weather.

On Tuesday, as rain soaked our community, adding to the puddles leftover from last week’s

storms, I noted to my fitness class that I enjoyed rainy days because I found them soothing. A

class member noted that the cloudy day actually depressed them, especially since they knew

their roof leaked every time even a small rain storm moved through.

I was reminded that not everyone feels the same way I do. This person was not only missing the

sun but was worried about the state of their home.

On Wednesday with the rain having moved on, a friend pointed out that she still had holes in her

roof from the hail storm last week, which meant more damage to her house. Her kitchen

cabinets were likely going to have to be completely replaced because the continuous water was

taking its toll. And her basement was again showing signs of water leaking into the lower level of

their house.

I decided not to share my love of rainy days again but all the recent experiences reminded me

that some of us have privileges that others don’t on a daily basis, such as the luxury of sleeping

through the night versus pulling an overnighter to get a job done; like finding the sound of rain

soothing versus building anxiety; or enjoying the cleansing rain as opposed to the dread of

water entering your home unwanted.

Considering what others are thinking and experiencing isn’t just limited to the rain and the

weather. It is applied to everyday life.

We cannot fully comprehend everything someone has gone through so a little bit of empathy

goes a long way. And we cannot understand everything someone has experienced so a little bit

of patience is helpful.

I’m still going to enjoy rainy days but I’m also going to realize that not everyone looks forward to

the clouds building up in the sky. And if we all showed a little bit more compassion for others,

our communities would be even better places to call home.

***

On a side note, thank you to everyone who attended the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska

performance of Omaha Street Percussion at the McCook Fox Theater this week.

Hosted locally by the McCook Creative District, the evening performance drew nearly 200

people Wednesday night.


But it was the morning matinee which was truly impressive. Nearly every seat in the Fox

Theater was full. Charlie and Christina Coleman dusted off rows and rows of chairs in the

balcony because they were all needed to host the 600-plus people in attendance.

A shout-out to the school administrators and music teachers for recognizing the value of taking

school time to attend the performance. It was truly spectacular to see the Fox filled to the

rafters. It was so much fun to see the teachers joining with their students in the excitement of

the music. And perhaps most importantly, it was a joy to see the smile on the kids’ faces, to see

their hands clapping, and to see their bodies jumping to the music.

For a change of pace, attendees were encouraged to clap along, to sing along and to even

stand up and dance in the middle of the show. And the kids - along with most adults - at the

morning matinee took full advantage of that opportunity.

It must be noted that the show was likely too much for the residents from Hillcrest who attended

the morning show, but I hope they saw the joy the young people were experiencing.

But it is moments like this show that we understand the importance of music in our lives, of

letting kids be kids and of simply letting go and enjoying the moment.

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Getting Outside of National Night Out Nearly everyone can tell you their last interaction with the police or the fire department. And unfortunately because of the nature of the organizations, it is usually not at a positive moment. My last contact with the McCook Police Department was just a few weeks ago, when I was pulled over on B Street in McCook…on my scooter. I pulled into the wrong lane when making a turn, which is illegal. But in my defense, it was an act of self-defense to just get through the intersection of East B and Sixth streets alive. Since the drivers haven’t seen a stop-light since Holdrege, cars and semis regularly run the traffic light, which makes me a wee bit vulnerable as I pass through the lanes. I got off with a warning but the true punishment were the texts throughout the day from everyone who saw me with my scooter and the police officer. Since most exchanges with police and fire are not on good terms, National Night Out was created to have an evening of positive interactions, to remind the public that the police and fire departments are just normal people, doing their jobs, looking out for their friends and neighbors, trying to create a safe community for everyone. National Night Out is designed to simply join your friends and neighbors for an evening of fellowship and fun. It is an opportunity to meet local law enforcement, creating safer and more caring neighborhoods. McCook is joining thousands of other communities across the country in hosting National Night Out, which typically takes place on the first Tuesday of August every year. Planned for Tuesday, Aug. 5 from 5:30-7 p.m. in and around Norris Park in McCook, the night includes a bike parade, a walk, awards for bike decorating, desserts and more. In other words, it is simply a block party to hang out. Numerous organizations have come together to make the evening possible. CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates) and the McCook Rotary Club are hosting a bike parade that starts at 6 p.m. Linda Maiden with State Farm, a bicycle helmet advocate, will also be in Norris Park. The streets around Norris Park will be shut down to provide a safe area to ride, as well as more space to cruise around the block. Participants are encouraged to decorate their bike, scooter, roller skates or anything on wheels. This could mean streamers, pompom balls, markers or even the old classic - playing cards in the spokes of your wheels. Some supplies will be available at the park for use if you show up and realize you are the most underdressed person at the party. If your bike has an inch of dust on it, this is a great time to get it out, wipe it off and get it rolling. And if your bike needs minimal fixes like a flat tire or a brake adjustment, bike tools will be on hand along with myself and my hubbie, who know just enough about bike repair to be dangerous but did manage a 300-plus mile bike ride last week so we must be doing something right. But let’s say you don’t have a bike or biking isn’t your cup of tea? Then you are still encouraged to join the “Walk in the Park,” hosted by Community Hospital. Designed to encourage a healthy lifestyle, walkers will stroll around the park and the neighborhood at whatever pace you feel like with strollers and dogs on leashes welcomed. And perhaps most importantly, there will be a chance to meet members of the McCook Police and Fire Department, getting to see police cars and fire engines close-up in a non-emergency manner, always the best way to see them. And if the weather cooperates, there may be a fire hose, water and spraying involved. If you have been at the Culbertson Fourth of July parade, you know it is up to you to stay out of the line of fire if you want to remain dry. We all have excuses for why we don’t want to go out at night, especially after a long day at work. But National Night Out in McCook on Aug. 5 is a great reason to get out your bicycle and lace up your walking shoes. Hang out with your friends, get to know your neighbors and meet your first responders. That is what makes our communities just a little bit better.