My closet at home is overflowing with t-shirts, filling totes, lining shelves and hanging from racks. There are shirts from 5K road races and sprint triathlons we have done the past few decades. Shirts from the bands we have seen at concerts in our own town and those we have traveled hours to watch. And shirts from just a few of the cities and states we have visited over the years. 

It is that final category about the places that caught my attention recently as I sifted through the hangars. I was looking for something to represent McCook as I attended a conference. I wanted fellow-attendees to know I was from McCook, without them having to squint to read my nametag. 

I have a sweatshirt from San Francisco, a cool t-shirt from Red Cloud, and a simple black shirt highlighting Omaha, but my McCook selection was minimal to non-existent. The only shirt in my closet noting McCook is one the McCook Community Foundation Fund designed for a program that we will share down the road.

Sure, my closet has plenty of clothing adorned with McCook Bison logos, but that is not the city of McCook. My clothing is made up of shirts from all the races we have held in McCook, but that is not representative of the town. 

The closest example I can find of a t-shirt available that represents our community is from Mac’s Drive-In with its’ “McCook Famous” proclamation. I’m hoping they are still for sale and because everyone rushes to buy one now, Tyler McCartey has to put in a new order. 

But why do I own a Red Cloud, Nebraska shirt and not one McCook? Because I walked into the National Willa Cather Center and found a variety of Red Cloud shirts to choose from. Many featured Cather quotes obviously. But others featured Red Cloud artists, who had designed the shirts. It was a win-win. The artists were featured and held up for their creativity and the community had something to promote itself. 

Wearing a shirt with writing on the front sends a message because it is something you are willing to put on your body. The shirt says you represent that concept or that idea. It says that you are proud of where you come from. It says that you want others to know more about what it says.

A shirt can also represent the “vibe” of the idea or in this example, of the community. In order to put something in writing or into a design, you have to understand what the vibe is. 

And that is what we are working on in McCook today. We are figuring out what the vibe of McCook is. Many organizations and individuals are working together to determine what we want the vibe of McCook to be.

And this doesn’t have to just be applied to a community. We all determine what the vibe is around us, whether at work, in the school, at church, or in our organizations. Each and everyone one of us sets the tone of wherever we go. It is simple to look at others and say they control what the tone is in a particular setting, but we have a say in what happens. 

If you don’t like the way something is run, step up and say something and make a change.If you would like to see something happen in your community, get involved, ask questions, offer to volunteer. 

It is easy to sit back and blame others for things that happen - or don’t happen. It is easy to say there is nothing you can do to change the tone of your community. But we can all make an impact in our places of worship, in our schools, in our places of work and perhaps most importantly in our communities. 

We get to determine the “vibe” our communities want to be and we get to figure out what will make us proud of where we live so that we can wear the shirts with the name of our hometown blazing across our chests. 

By Ronda Graff October 24, 2025
McCook's last hometown bakery closed this past week, leaving a void not just for donuts but for connections.
By Ronda Graff October 16, 2025
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By Ronda Graff October 13, 2025
Organizer for Buffalo Commons Storytelling Festival and former librarian named Oct 2025 volunteer of the month.
By Ronda Graff October 10, 2025
McCook's Third Thursdays were created to get businesses and organizations involved and designed to create life-long memories for the community.
By Ronda Graff October 2, 2025
Long-time community advocate Barb Ostrum received the Sept 2025 McCook Volunteer of the Month award.
By Peggy Been October 1, 2025
We need to celebrate our young people while they are here and encourage them to return.
By Ronda Graff September 29, 2025
While some like myself appreciate a rainy day, others dread them for a variety of reasons. We need to be empathetic as interact with others.
By Ronda Graff September 23, 2025
MCFF Fall Grant Deadline is Oct. 1. Complete list of former recipients on MCFF website
By Ronda Graff September 19, 2025
With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
Most likely, we aren't going to be good at something at the start. But that shouldn't stop us from trying.