Mondays, New Year’s Day, the first day of the month. These are the most popular days to start a diet or to quit smoking or to begin a new habit such as getting more sleep or eating healthier.

And those are all commendable goals to strive toward.

But usually after a few days, a few weeks or perhaps even a few months, the motivation wanes. Old habits creep back in like a snack after midnight even though losing a few pounds was the goal or staying up late to watch your favorite show even though getting more sleep is needed.

Admitting defeat, you give up and call it quits. You failed, so there is no purpose in continuing. But this “all or nothing” mentality is not good in the long run…nor in the short run. Somewhere in the middle is O.K. because ultimately, something is better than nothing. 

For many of us, we like to have an impending start date such as the beginning of the new year or the start of the week. If so, use July 1 as a fresh start. Whereas January 1 is usually cold and dreary, July 1 offers sunshine and heat…lots of it. With July 4 falling on a Monday, use Tuesday July 5 as a starting point.

There is no reason a vow to eat healthier can’t start on a Tuesday. In fact, use that Monday to stock up on healthier snacks at work to prepare for the transition. Day-after-day of poor eating is not good for you but one day shouldn’t derail all your well-intentioned plans. Bonus: If you vowed to eat healthy during the week and have “cheat days” on the weekends, you only have to make it through four days before taking a break.

Just because you don’t get a good night’s sleep one night doesn’t mean you should resume staying up late every night. Resolve to get to bed earlier the next night. And five good nights sleep out of seven is better than nothing. 

Perhaps you know you should be saving toward something in the future, whether its a child’s college savings account or a new car or just an emergency fund. Every little penny adds up. And if there is a week that a “penny” can’t be set aside, so be it. Just resume putting those pennies in the jar the next week you are able.

Speaking of pennies adding up, the 2022 Big Give McCook isn’t until November but organizers are hard at work right now preparing for the one day of giving especially with a deadline quickly approaching. Any new non-profit organizations which have a presence in the area are eligible to join by July 5. Just go to biggivemccook.org to find the registration button.

The Big Give McCook is a great example of not succumbing to the “all or nothing” mentality. Organizations don’t expect donors to give all of their financial resources, but the non-profits cannot continue if nothing is given. 

Instead, the Big Give concept works because everyone can give something. And when all those donations are added together, the organizations are successful. 

The McCook Chamber of Commerce also recently overcame an “all or nothing” hurdle by opting to move its’ Crazy Days event last week, rather than cancel it.

Kudos to the McCook Chamber for its ability to quickly move the location of its Bash on the Bricks celebration. The event easily could have been cancelled simply because logistics were too much. Instead, everyone worked together to move the event and continue on because something was going to be better than nothing. And from comments heard afterward, the Bash was a success and something to be continued and built upon for next year.

And finally, the Culbertson Freedom Run is Monday, July 4th. Maybe a 5K run was on your to-do list this year but training hasn’t gone as planned - if at all - but that shouldn’t stop you from signing up for the race on Monday at 8 a.m. After all, it’s a great way to start off the holiday. Visit mccookymca.org to signup today.

Nowhere does it say anyone has to “run” the race. Walking is perfectly fine. Waddling, skipping, hopping. Those are all perfectly acceptable ways to cover 3.1 miles. Push a stroller. Bring the dog. If your cat is good on a leash, go for it. 

There is no time limit. Yes, the Culbertson Fourth of July parade starts at 10 a.m. but there is a scooter to pick up those people who simply can’t finish. And there won’t be an official time if you shorten the course by turning around early, but participants can return to the start line whenever they want, shortening the distance. Those on the course are still going further than those who never got off the couch. After all, there is never a perfect time, there is only now; and something is better than nothing.

By Ronda Graff December 17, 2025
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By Ronda Graff November 25, 2025
While many people think volunteering is for older residents, serving your community has no age restrictions. And young people can regularly be found lending a hand or offering their services in their hometown. The November 2025 McCook Volunteer of the Month recognizes one of many young people are working to make their community an even better place to call home: Grady Riemenschneider. Currently a senior at McCook High School, Grady volunteers with a wide variety of organizations and groups. As a four-year member of the McCook Community Foundation Fund’s Youth Change Reaction, Grady serves as the ambassador for the youth group’s “Cars Under Stars,” the outdoor movie theater at the Red Willow County Fairgrounds. At nearly every showing, he can be found operating the projector and setting up the parking lot, as well as passing along his knowledge to the next ambassador. In McCook’s FFA program, Grady has held officer roles the past four years and is currently the chapter vice president, organized the chapter banquet in 2025 and coached for the conduct of chapter meetings. Along with serving as the president of the Driftwood Feeders 4-H Club, he assists with setup, tear down and fundraising for the dog show and helps fellow members train their dogs. Grady steps in to help and lead at local events, including Prairie Plains CASA’s Kick in’ It Up for CASA and the Cajun Broil; the Edward Jones Alzheimer’s Walk; operating sound boards for various groups; and Feed the Farmer. And he has served as a youth leader at McCook Christian Church for elementary youth since approximately 2018 as well as stepping up to ensure the ag program ran smoothly during a teacher’s maternity leave Upon request from his mother about some of Grady’s activities, Sharleen noted that he is the “Chief Household Operations Officer: first responder for Mom’s to-do list, go-to chauffeur and caretaker for his favorite sidekick (a.k.a. his nephew), and the family’s unofficial event planner who somehow keeps everyone together without a clipboard.” The McCook Philanthropy Council recognizes a volunteer every month who is doing good work in McCook and Red Willow County. If there is a volunteer in the community who should be recognized, please contact the McCook Chamber of Commerce at 308-345-3200 or visit McCook Volunteers on the McCook Community Foundation Fund’s website, mccookfoundation.org to complete a nomination form. The only requirement is that the nominee must be a resident of McCook or Red Willow County but please have information about the nominee along with where and how they volunteer in the community. The volunteer honoree is selected monthly by the McCook Philanthropy Council.
By Linda Taylor November 25, 2025
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By Ronda Graff November 22, 2025
The names of those people who have made a generational impact on McCook and Southwest Nebraska is a long list. Many of them are working day-in, day-out right now to make their mark on the community. And then there are those people who no longer call McCook home but still make an impact long after they are gone. Allen Strunk is one of those people. Allen passed away on Nov. 1 at his home in Las Vegas, Nevada but he never lost the love of his hometown. Born and raised in McCook, Allen was a member of an already well-known family, Harry and Arlene Strunk. The Strunks started and published the McCook Daily Gazette, with the motto, “Service is the rent we pay for the space we occupy in this world.” A saying that was so important that Harry had it etched at the top of his downtown newspaper office on Norris Avenue. That sense of service was passed along to Allen, who continued to serve his community as he took over leadership of the Gazette. I didn’t know Allen personally until he came back for visits years later. Even though my first job upon arriving in McCook was at the McCook Daily Gazette and Allen had turned over the publishing reins to Gene Morris many years prior, the Strunk legacy loomed large. He was instrumental in the building of the then-new YMCA, moving the facility from downtown to its current location next to the McCook High School. He was a key player in the new hospital, again moving from one location to a new expanded space. And McCook Community College benefitted his involvement in an expansion. Those projects continue to impact McCook today. And the support didn’t stop just because Allen retired from the Gazette and left McCook. There are programs the Strunks are involved in that benefit McCook and Southwest Nebraska. The Strunks continue to support Santa Claus Lane, which is overseen by the McCook Chamber of Commerce. And which after a few years of decline is seeing a resurgence of enthusiasm and nostalgia for the decorative holiday pieces lining Norris Avenue. Allen funds the annual McCook Area Outstanding Teacher award, which provides a financial prize to several teachers every year. And Allen recognized the work of the McCook Community Foundation Fund, providing a donation several years ago so that he could see its impact while he was still alive. This has led MCFF to consider how they will recognize and remember Allen for years to come. Because of his belief in service to his community, this could mean more recognition for the countless volunteers who keep our community thriving. It could be a day of community service, to see how many people can come together to make something happen. It could be a celebration for all the great things happening in our community. During Allen’s memorial service this past week in McCook, his step-daughter-in-law read the poem, “The Dash" by Linda Ellis, who published it in 1996. It reflects on the meaning of the dash between the birth and death dates on a tombstone. The dash is a reminder of everything that happens between the moment a person is born and the moment a person dies. The dash emphasizes the importance of how one lives their life during that time. The dash prompts a person to think about living, rather than worrying about dying. Ultimately, the dash is where all the good - and the bad - happens. And Allen Strunk made the most of his “dash,” both in his community and within his family. We can’t all run a newspaper. We likely aren’t going to etch our favorite saying into a building. But we all need to consider how we are paying the “rent for the space we occupy in this world.” And we can all make a difference in our hometowns, whether we currently live in them or even if we haven’t stepped foot on the main street in years. 
By Ronda Graff November 18, 2025
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