Last weekend, McCook was steeped in goodwill and nostalgia to unofficially kick off the holiday season. 

Families lined the downtown streets for arguably the biggest and best Christmas Lights Parade, put on my KICX. Groups took turns in a horse-drawn carriage ride around the neighborhoods, thanks to the McCook Chamber. People looked up in awe at the new lights outlining McCook’s “skyline,” installed by a group of individuals who just wanted to get it done. And friends and neighbors waved to each other as they went from decorating Xmas cookies and making snowflakes at the McCook Community Kitchen to shopping at local stores to enjoying hot chocolate and treats throughout the community.

It was a reminder of all the good things that can and do happen in our communities when people and organizations come together. 

As we near the end of the year, we begin to reflect on everything that has taken place over the past 365 days - the good and the not so good. 

There was the bad, like the grass fires, which destroyed houses and buildings and led to the loss of life. But the disasters also brought out the good as people stepped up to help by fighting the fires, serving food to those on the frontline or donating money and goods to replace what was lost.

If we sit still for a moment to consider all the good things that happened, we would be in awe of everything we have been blessed with over the past year. If you need a prompt, just start flipping through the pictures on your phone. It is like when you are cleaning at home and you stumble across an old photo album or high school yearbook…you are just going to look for a few minutes. Next thing you know, an hour has passed.

Likewise, I digress…

Some highlights from the past year include Humanities Nebraska bringing the Nebraska Chautauqua to McCook for the first time in more than 30 years. Through reenactments and speakers, the 1950s were brought to life. 

McCook should have a new outdoor swimming pool in 2024, thanks to McCook voters passing the sales tax bond issue. The new facility is long overdue but the project will move McCook forward.

Additionally, concerts were held, theatrical performances were put on, community events took place. As I frequently say, anyone who says there is nothing going on hasn’t looked hard enough. And if they truly believe there is nothing to do here, then they need to get involved to make it happen.

Personally, one of my favorite memories from this past year was the Smithsonian’s Museum on Main Street’s traveling museum, “Crossroads: Change in Rural America.” For those who don’t remember, the exhibit was set up in the lobby of the Keystone in late spring and early summer. Most of the local students visited the exhibit, learning 

Mary Dueland organized the volunteer docents to lead the school groups through the exhibit, prompting the students with questions and helping them to delve deeper into the pictures and stories on display. 

I had the privilege of following a few of those groups on their tours and their reactions showed why it was so important to bring an exhibit about our history to the community. 

The kids repeatedly noted the word “persistence” on the exhibit and how the people before them has to be persistent to get things done and had to be persistent in their changing environment.

They also realized the importance of George Norris, both in creating the Unicameral and bringing electricity to rural America. 

Another unique aspect of the Smithsonian traveling exhibit were the postcards visitors of all ages could fill out and leave in the mock mailbox. The postcards featured questions to prompt a person to think about their community, including “Name 3 things you would miss from this community if you had to leave” and “If you were mayor, what would you do?”

Several dozens of cards were filled out and compiled into a spreadsheet. with all the answers available on the McCook Community Foundation Fund website, mccookfoundation.org. The replies make for interesting insight to what people - both current residents and visitors - think about McCook and their own communities. 

The responses are also useful as we look forward on what we want our community to be, what we could like to see happen, and what each and every one of us can do to make McCook and Southwest Nebraska an even better place to call home.

By Ronda Graff October 24, 2025
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By Ronda Graff September 23, 2025
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By Ronda Graff September 19, 2025
With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
Most likely, we aren't going to be good at something at the start. But that shouldn't stop us from trying.