Retirement is finally here.

I recently entered this new phase of life where I moved from the highly-scheduled routine of a professional working day to the less-scheduled day of home projects, traveling and a variety of community efforts. 

This will require a transition period. And I am finding that I need to add some routine to my days or I can simply while my time away. Without adding some intentionality to my schedule, weeks and months could slip away with little to show for my time.

Thinking about my personal transition, I realized there is a commonality with transitions in our workplaces, government entities, social groups and civic clubs. So many of these organizations have reached their own “retirement” age and now need to address succession planning or a handing over of the reins to new members. 

I want to commend one local group for illustrating a powerful way to do this. If you attended the recent performance of Little Women, put on by the Southwest Nebraska Community Theatre Association (SWNCTA), you would have been treated to an excellent musical production by local artists. 

More importantly, you may have noticed that there was a host of younger people debuting their passion and skills for performing. Even the director was from the younger generation.

Could these young performers have put together a successful show on their own? Not yet, but they didn’t have to do so. Instead, many of the older and experienced members we have watched for many years did not step away but merely stepped aside. 

Just a few examples of “regulars” I noticed: Kathy was in the ticket sales booth, Jim was greeting people at the front door, Don and Alice were taking tickets, Mark and Tim were helping with the stage crew, Chuck was on set construction, Russ, Sue and Darrin were manning the sound, several remained on set design, Sheryl handled costumes and the list goes on. 

Was the acting of the new performers as polished? Not yet. Was the singing as lyrical and beautiful? Not yet. Was the dancing and on-stage movement as fluid? Not yet.

The key word here is “yet.”  With these young performers’ natural talents, combined with their passion for sharing their gifts and having the guidance of experienced people walking beside them and teaching them, they will surely become our next group of local stars. I imagine there were moments of frustration on everyone’s part through this transition and learning process. New life only comes through change, and change can be hard. What was displayed on stage for the audience, however, was a professional and entertaining show with a host of new members.

We can all learn from SWNCTA on the importance of sustaining our organizations into the future. Whether it is a business, public office, community nonprofit, church group, or your own clubs, we are at a crucial time in our community to pass on the knowledge and talents to new members -- or watch many of these groups slowly slip away. 

Don’t step away – step aside – then stay involved to help with the transition. Regardless of your stage in life, find an area in which you have a desire to make an impact in our community and get involved. Consider serving as a mentor or asking someone to be your mentor.

If we work together to step aside and not step away, we will continue making McCook an even better place to call home.


Peggy Been recently retired from MNB Bank after 25 years, but remains secretary for MCFF and will undoubtedly stay actively involved in the community. 

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With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
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