When I mention that my husband and I are chaperoning a high school dance, people usually have one of three reactions: pity, sympathy or bewilderment.
I, on the other hand, really enjoy sponsoring dances. It gives us a chance to hear music of which we have no idea what they are saying...and probably don’t want to know. It gives us a chance to bust out our best 1980s dance moves, much to the chagrin of our own children at the dance. And it gives us a chance to just hang out with many of our great younger people, while they are doing something fun.
(And congratulations to Liv Wier and Bryce Dutton on being crowned MHS Color Day Queen and King this past weekend.)
Every year but especially this year, we need to be intentional about creating possibilities where our young people can have fun, can make memories, and can form those bonds with our community.
It is having a dance, even though everyone has to wear a mask - and did a great job wearing them all night. It is creating a inviting space, where kids feel safe and welcome. It is creating opportunities where they can be involved and make an impact and even have ownership of their own projects.
The McCook skate park is a great example of empowering and supporting young people and seeing their idea come to fruition. The idea started with young people who simply wanted a skate park, which so many towns already had. They were involved every step of the way and now McCook can say it has a skatepark. And even if you will never use a skate park, it is still an asset for the community. It could be the one thing that makes a family with young kids choose to move to McCook - or not.
It is investing in our young people, both with our dollars and our time.
Perhaps it is coaching a youth sports team at the YMCA. Maybe you have a passion for a sport that you could share with a young person. Maybe this is your chance to spend more time with your grandchild doing something healthy.
Just because you don’t have a child enrolled does not mean you cannot help. I have a picture of me standing in the middle of Weiland Field (yes, that’s where we played when the program began), six months pregnant with my first child, surrounded by a gaggle of 10 year olds during half-time of a soccer game. She’s now 24 and I’ve coached soccer every year since.
While we may not realize it now, investing our time and money in young people will pay off down the road when those kids become the employees we need to fill the many jobs open in our community; when those kids return from college with a spouse in a tow (the “better half” as I like to call myself) and start their family; or when those kids are our next leaders and volunteers for the many great organizations and programs which already exist or which they will create on their own.
Every day, each and everyone of us makes decisions which will have an impact on what our community will look like for future generations.
But we have a special opportunity next week to share what we would like our community to look like next year, 10 years from now, 20, 30 or even 50 years from now. Decisions made today will affect us, our children and our grandchildren for years to come.
The city of McCook is hosting a town hall meeting next Thursday, Feb. 18 at 7 p.m. in the City Auditorium on West 5th Street. Everyone will have a chance to provide input on what we would like our community to be, what projects we would like to see completed, what is important for our community to not just maintain the status quo but to actually thrive and grow.
Even if you can’t attend in person, there are still ways to participate. There are plans to Zoom the town hall, so check the city website for further instructions. Or you can always email or call the city offices to share your ideas and suggestions.
While posting on Facebook or calling the radio station lets a person vent, it is not the most productive way to get something accomplished. City officials would rather hear helpful suggestions before the fact, rather than negative comments when it’s too late.
While the meeting will focus on issues the city can address such as the pool project, street maintenance and annexation, there is no reason other ideas cannot be shared. Maybe those ideas will be picked up by other groups and organizations in our community or even individuals who share your passion.
And who knows? Maybe it is your idea which makes a 2021 graduate decide to stay in McCook after graduation. Maybe it is your passion which convinces an alumni to invest in their hometown. Maybe it is your creativity which pushes a former resident to return and raise their family here.
So plan on attending, speaking or even just listening at the Feb. 18 town hall meeting, so we can all make McCook an even better place to call home.
Linda Graff named McCook Volunteer of the Month for December 2025
By focusing on what is important, we can make an even better impact in our communities.
After a 10-year hiatus, the McCook Holiday Home Tours return focusing on downtown upstairs apartments.
While many people think volunteering is for older residents, serving your community has no age restrictions. And young people can regularly be found lending a hand or offering their services in their hometown. The November 2025 McCook Volunteer of the Month recognizes one of many young people are working to make their community an even better place to call home: Grady Riemenschneider. Currently a senior at McCook High School, Grady volunteers with a wide variety of organizations and groups. As a four-year member of the McCook Community Foundation Fund’s Youth Change Reaction, Grady serves as the ambassador for the youth group’s “Cars Under Stars,” the outdoor movie theater at the Red Willow County Fairgrounds. At nearly every showing, he can be found operating the projector and setting up the parking lot, as well as passing along his knowledge to the next ambassador. In McCook’s FFA program, Grady has held officer roles the past four years and is currently the chapter vice president, organized the chapter banquet in 2025 and coached for the conduct of chapter meetings. Along with serving as the president of the Driftwood Feeders 4-H Club, he assists with setup, tear down and fundraising for the dog show and helps fellow members train their dogs. Grady steps in to help and lead at local events, including Prairie Plains CASA’s Kick in’ It Up for CASA and the Cajun Broil; the Edward Jones Alzheimer’s Walk; operating sound boards for various groups; and Feed the Farmer. And he has served as a youth leader at McCook Christian Church for elementary youth since approximately 2018 as well as stepping up to ensure the ag program ran smoothly during a teacher’s maternity leave Upon request from his mother about some of Grady’s activities, Sharleen noted that he is the “Chief Household Operations Officer: first responder for Mom’s to-do list, go-to chauffeur and caretaker for his favorite sidekick (a.k.a. his nephew), and the family’s unofficial event planner who somehow keeps everyone together without a clipboard.” The McCook Philanthropy Council recognizes a volunteer every month who is doing good work in McCook and Red Willow County. If there is a volunteer in the community who should be recognized, please contact the McCook Chamber of Commerce at 308-345-3200 or visit McCook Volunteers on the McCook Community Foundation Fund’s website, mccookfoundation.org to complete a nomination form. The only requirement is that the nominee must be a resident of McCook or Red Willow County but please have information about the nominee along with where and how they volunteer in the community. The volunteer honoree is selected monthly by the McCook Philanthropy Council.
With the holiday's nearing, MCFF member and Mayor Linda Taylor reflects on the many things to be thankful in McCook.
The names of those people who have made a generational impact on McCook and Southwest Nebraska is a long list. Many of them are working day-in, day-out right now to make their mark on the community. And then there are those people who no longer call McCook home but still make an impact long after they are gone. Allen Strunk is one of those people. Allen passed away on Nov. 1 at his home in Las Vegas, Nevada but he never lost the love of his hometown. Born and raised in McCook, Allen was a member of an already well-known family, Harry and Arlene Strunk. The Strunks started and published the McCook Daily Gazette, with the motto, “Service is the rent we pay for the space we occupy in this world.” A saying that was so important that Harry had it etched at the top of his downtown newspaper office on Norris Avenue. That sense of service was passed along to Allen, who continued to serve his community as he took over leadership of the Gazette. I didn’t know Allen personally until he came back for visits years later. Even though my first job upon arriving in McCook was at the McCook Daily Gazette and Allen had turned over the publishing reins to Gene Morris many years prior, the Strunk legacy loomed large. He was instrumental in the building of the then-new YMCA, moving the facility from downtown to its current location next to the McCook High School. He was a key player in the new hospital, again moving from one location to a new expanded space. And McCook Community College benefitted his involvement in an expansion. Those projects continue to impact McCook today. And the support didn’t stop just because Allen retired from the Gazette and left McCook. There are programs the Strunks are involved in that benefit McCook and Southwest Nebraska. The Strunks continue to support Santa Claus Lane, which is overseen by the McCook Chamber of Commerce. And which after a few years of decline is seeing a resurgence of enthusiasm and nostalgia for the decorative holiday pieces lining Norris Avenue. Allen funds the annual McCook Area Outstanding Teacher award, which provides a financial prize to several teachers every year. And Allen recognized the work of the McCook Community Foundation Fund, providing a donation several years ago so that he could see its impact while he was still alive. This has led MCFF to consider how they will recognize and remember Allen for years to come. Because of his belief in service to his community, this could mean more recognition for the countless volunteers who keep our community thriving. It could be a day of community service, to see how many people can come together to make something happen. It could be a celebration for all the great things happening in our community. During Allen’s memorial service this past week in McCook, his step-daughter-in-law read the poem, “The Dash" by Linda Ellis, who published it in 1996. It reflects on the meaning of the dash between the birth and death dates on a tombstone. The dash is a reminder of everything that happens between the moment a person is born and the moment a person dies. The dash emphasizes the importance of how one lives their life during that time. The dash prompts a person to think about living, rather than worrying about dying. Ultimately, the dash is where all the good - and the bad - happens. And Allen Strunk made the most of his “dash,” both in his community and within his family. We can’t all run a newspaper. We likely aren’t going to etch our favorite saying into a building. But we all need to consider how we are paying the “rent for the space we occupy in this world.” And we can all make a difference in our hometowns, whether we currently live in them or even if we haven’t stepped foot on the main street in years.
Everyone feels a need to be needed and it is shown through the Big Give and Meal Kit Giveaways
SWNE Big Give reaches new heights thanks to enthusiasm of organizations, individuals and businesses
Food pantries are seeing an increased need, which means the community must step up with donations of food and time to help those who struggle to put food on the table.
