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Abby Boner • Oct 18, 2023

Youth Change Reaction member reflects on highs and lows of youth group

As I enter my senior year at McCook High School, being a member of Youth Change Reaction has truly been a privilege and a one-of-a-kind experience during my high school career.

As a freshman, I applied for YCR because I knew upperclassmen who were a part of the McCook Community Foundation Fund’s youth organization and they shared their great experiences. I have had a passion for community service since joining the Driftwood Feeders 4-H club as a kid and I wanted to expand my involvement in the community.

Being a part of YCR has not only helped me immensely with my leadership skills but the group has also given me the opportunity to develop public speaking skills at a young age. When I started high school, I was terrified of public speaking and in fact, really anything that involved talking to adults.

As a freshman, I would go to MCFF monthly meetings, feeling so anxious and afraid that I would not know what to say. However, I quickly realized that the adults in that meeting room and in this community want our youth to succeed.

Additionally, YCR has given me the opportunity to express the voice I didn’t even know I had. Last year, I was given the opportunity to speak at the Nebraska Community Foundation’s annual training event in front of room full of adults from across the state. Although I was nervous, I was able to complete my speech with ease because of the support I received and the confidence that I had established in my public speaking.

Although I have had plenty of good experiences with YCR, I have had my share of complex challenges. When we were in the process of getting the parts needed to complete the Cars Under the Stars drive-in theater project, I faced great difficulty trying to get a screen ordered from a reputable sign company…an struggle I dealt with for the first half of my junior year.

I felt embarrassed. I felt like I was letting my community down because I was not able to accomplish this goal within the time frame we had promised. I expressed my feelings to Mrs. Shelly Sehnert (our YCR school sponsor) and Ronda Graff (MCFF coordinator). And with their help, we were able to get a new screen ordered, other parts made and the drive-in should be up within the next few months, hopefully in time for a spring show.

Overcoming this obstacle was challenging, but it taught me a lot. It gave me a glimpse into the “real world” and showed me how difficult it can be to accomplish a big project like a drive-in. I was able to see all the logistics to be tackled and the details to be finalized for a project of this size…. which I would have never experienced without YCR.

Without YCR, I would probably still be afraid of public speaking and I wouldn’t have as many great experiences with the community. I am grateful to have spent my high school years as a part of such a wonderful organization and group of people, including my fellow YCR members.

Being a member of Youth Change Reaction has helped me in more ways than I could have ever imagined and has made a large impact on the person I am today.

By being listened to, by being heard and by being involved in the community, I realized that McCook really is a good place to call home.

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As co-president of YCR, Abby Boner will have the chance to speak again at the Nebraska Community Foundation annual event in November, as part of a People Attraction Summit focusing on youth engagement.

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Sitting at a polling station for 12 straight hours provides a lot of insight into our community. The experience proved that we are social animals who need to be around others. The experience demonstrated that regardless of everyone’s difference of opinions, we are all still neighbors, friends and family who want what is best for our hometowns. And the experience showed that even a situation as dry and sometimes contentious as voting warrants a hug or two. Earlier this week, I had the privilege of working a polling station in McCook during Nebraska’s primary election. And while officially it was the opportunity to cast your vote to determine the future of the community and the country, let’s be honest that it was a social event. For transparency, it was not a social event based upon the voter turnout. The next day, several people commented that they didn’t know the primary was Tuesday. 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