My four years as a Youth Change Reaction member have been truly transformative. When I first heard about YCR, I was merely a timid little eighth grader sitting in my grade school cafeteria. The seemingly intimidating high school members came to speak to us about applying to the group, which is the youth group of the McCook Community Foundation Fund.

At the time, I had absolutely no idea what YCR would entail. Quite frankly, I just thought it was something that would look good on a college application, but it turned out to be so much more than that. 

YCR is a group where kids are finally treated like adults. As a teenager, I'm used to not being taken seriously, even when my ideas are logistically sound and well thought out. 

Knowingly or unknowingly, adults tend to belittle teenagers, especially in a professional setting. On some level, this is justified since most adults have more real-life experience.

But in a group like YCR, decisions are truly based on the will and ideas of the youth. We do all the “grown-up” work, so therefore, we deserve to receive the same respect as adults do. 

Our adult sponsors, Mark Graff, Pam Wolford, Shelly Sehnert and Gavin Harsh, are very helpful because of their vast and varied experiences.

They try to provide a balance of guidance when we need it, but let us make decisions - and mistakes -  too. 

YCR is not a group that plasters “youth'' on everything, when, in reality, the adults do the brunt of the work. It is truly run by the high school members, while our incredible sponsors just point us in the right direction. We are making a big and lasting impact on our community through projects and our activities. 

Most youth groups don’t have the privilege of working so closely with such experienced members of the community. With their help, we are able to accomplish feats that would be unrealistic for most youth organizations. 

Additionally, we are blessed to have substantial financial support from grants as well as from generous donations from community members. 

For example, our drive-in theater project received a grant from the McCook Community Foundation Fund Advisory Committee, showing their support for the project. It was also matched by a Youth Engagement Grant from the Nebraska Community Foundation. But the remainder of the cost was donated by generous businesses, individuals and organizations from the area. The drive-in project, along with our smaller ones, has truly shown me how our ideas can come to fruition because of the generosity of the community.

YCR has also given me networking opportunities that I never would have had if not for this group. Not only has it given me connections to some really amazing people, but it has also forced me to go outside my comfort zone and learn to talk to a variety of different people, especially adults. 

It’s always really cool to see the passion that so many people have for their communities, and the way their eyes light up when they talk about positive change. Everyone I have met through YCR seems deeply interested in the youth-aspect of our group. Community leaders are constantly trying to think of ways to make our town more appealing to kids, so they love to pick our brain for input. 

Representing our community’s youth, we can give direct input about what we would like to see happen in our town and what sort of things would make us want to return to our hometown one day to raise a family of our own. 

As my four years as a YCR member comes to an end, I’ve learned so many lessons that will help me in my future job, family, and community. I would’ve never had the opportunity to learn and experience such cool things without this group. YCR has served as an incredible outlet for me to branch out to other people who care about the community and turn my dreams - and their dreams - into reality. 

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Natalie Roberts is a senior at McCook High School, co-president of Youth Change Reaction and truly wants to make her hometown an even better place to call home.

By Ronda Graff October 24, 2025
McCook's last hometown bakery closed this past week, leaving a void not just for donuts but for connections.
By Ronda Graff October 16, 2025
Many organizations and businesses in McCook offer the opportunity to recycle, reuse and repair items that may just end up in the trash.
By Ronda Graff October 13, 2025
Organizer for Buffalo Commons Storytelling Festival and former librarian named Oct 2025 volunteer of the month.
By Ronda Graff October 10, 2025
McCook's Third Thursdays were created to get businesses and organizations involved and designed to create life-long memories for the community.
By Ronda Graff October 2, 2025
Long-time community advocate Barb Ostrum received the Sept 2025 McCook Volunteer of the Month award.
By Peggy Been October 1, 2025
We need to celebrate our young people while they are here and encourage them to return.
By Ronda Graff September 29, 2025
While some like myself appreciate a rainy day, others dread them for a variety of reasons. We need to be empathetic as interact with others.
By Ronda Graff September 23, 2025
MCFF Fall Grant Deadline is Oct. 1. Complete list of former recipients on MCFF website
By Ronda Graff September 19, 2025
With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
Most likely, we aren't going to be good at something at the start. But that shouldn't stop us from trying.