It hangs high on the wall in my den - or man cave. A single-shot, bolt-action, 22-caliber rifle last made in the mid-1930s. It hasn’t been fired since my college days back in the 1960s, yet still maintains a place of honor in my home.

My mother’s dad, my grandpa, gave it to me when I turned 13. It was my first gun. He spent hours with me, teaching me gun safety and how to shoot. 

Growing up as a country kid, I made many trips around the section as I walked the fence rows or wandered through a pasture. I shot way more pads off a prickly pear cactus, plunking holes in beer cans or making cow chips fly than I did shooting critters. 

Nearly every boy in my small high school had a rifle or shotgun in their vehicle that sat parked, unlocked, in the school parking lot back then. 

When I got my school permit, I was no different. My little .22 came with me. Snakes and skunks were at their own peril on that five-mile gravel road that I drove to and from school.

And to this day, I think of grandpa every time I look up at that gun.

This past year, I tweaked my will a bit to include some personal items which I would like certain people to receive upon my passing. 

My grandson, Alex, will get that rifle. It is not the antique value of a gun no longer in production, but rather whose hands have held the gun that I want him to appreciate. It is my hope that long into the future, Alex will pass that same gun along to one of his children and tell the stories behind the gun. 

From person to person, from generation to generation, the gift of that .22 links the past to the present and ultimately to the future. And there are many ways to express that continuity. 

This past month, a bench was placed outside the Red Willow County Courthouse and county safety center in memory of longtime county sheriff, Gene Mahon. If you are watchful, you will find many such benches with plaques honoring those who have made an impact on our community. These types of gifts add value to our community and help us remember those who have gone before us. 

The McCook Community Foundation Fund operates much the same: adding value to the community while honoring members of our community. 

MCFF accepts donations in memory of departed community members or in honor of those still living. The dollars generated in interest are used to support programs and projects in our community which ultimately makes the community stronger. 

The original gift is not used; just the interest so the gift goes on forever. Through these gifts, both large and small, those being honored are forever remembered. They stay alive in spirit and stay impactful for generations. The donations are tangible proof that they have made a positive difference. 

MCFF also works to add continuity in our community through two main avenues. The first is restricted endowments, where dollars generated from interest must go to specific designated purposes. The other is unrestricted endowments, where the fund advisory committee has been given the responsibility and trust to allocate funds for projects and programs they believe will help the community long-term.

Just this past year, the McCook Arts Council, McCook Community College, Fox Theater, Humanities Nebraska, Community Hospital Health Foundation, City of McCook, YMCA, McCook Economic Development Corp. and McCook Public Schools were all on the receiving end of more than $160,000 from unrestricted grant dollars. 

With your gifts to the foundation - whether large or small, in wills or estate planning - grants to worthwhile projects in McCook will continue to grow not only next year but for years to come. 

That little .22, when it was new or now as an antique, does not hold much monetary value. But that family heirloom, like a donation to MCFF, is a gift that has created a living legacy. Thanks grandpa for thinking of me. I loved you then and I love you now.

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Dennis Berry is a member of the McCook Community Foundation Fund’s Advisory Committee, along with numerous other organizations which are working to make McCook and all our communities even better places to call home. 

By Ronda Graff October 24, 2025
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By Ronda Graff October 16, 2025
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By Ronda Graff October 13, 2025
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By Ronda Graff October 10, 2025
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By Ronda Graff October 2, 2025
Long-time community advocate Barb Ostrum received the Sept 2025 McCook Volunteer of the Month award.
By Peggy Been October 1, 2025
We need to celebrate our young people while they are here and encourage them to return.
By Ronda Graff September 29, 2025
While some like myself appreciate a rainy day, others dread them for a variety of reasons. We need to be empathetic as interact with others.
By Ronda Graff September 23, 2025
MCFF Fall Grant Deadline is Oct. 1. Complete list of former recipients on MCFF website
By Ronda Graff September 19, 2025
With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
Most likely, we aren't going to be good at something at the start. But that shouldn't stop us from trying.