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Ronda Graff • Nov 02, 2023

Every member of my family is a swimmer, some by choice, some by default. Our bathrooms at home can attest to that fact, with drawers devoted to goggles and swim caps and shelves crowded with beach towels and swim shampoo.

All of my kids plus my husband and I are or have been lifeguards. The McCook YMCA pool has served many purposes over the years from swim lessons to swim teams to hours of recreational swim. The swimming pool is our second home.

Personally, I have another reason I value the pool at the Y: I use it whenever I have writer’s block or just to think through things. It provides the opportunity to swim back and forth in the lap lane with nothing else but my thoughts. During that time, I can come up with ideas for a column and work through a roadblock on a story. Or I can mull over an issue with a group I’m involved in or a problem bedeviling the community.

By the time I pull myself onto the edge of the pool, I’ve most likely made progress on whatever issue was weighing on my mind when I dove into the water. It’s my way of removing all other distractions and focusing on the task at hand.

Now this is a fairly specific example, but it’s my way of showing how important the YMCA is personally to me and my family. We can’t imagine McCook without the YMCA and all that it offers. 

And the same can be said of many of the organizations which are taking part in the 8th annual Southwest Nebraska Big Give. Our communities cannot be as good as they can be without these non-profit organizations operating day-in, day-out.

By the time you read this, one of three things will have happened involving the Southwest Nebraska Big Give. The one-day of giving will have started and you have given your donation or plan to later today. The Big Give is nearly over but you haven’t made a contribution so you should stop reading this and go make a donation. Or the Big Give is over and you didn’t make a donation. 

But just because you didn’t give during the Southwest Nebraska Big Give doesn’t mean you can’t continue to support these organizations. 

All of them will gladly and eagerly take a financial donation anytime of the year. There is just extra emphasis on donating during the Big Give because generous sponsors have provided matching funds to be used on the one-day of giving.

Some of these organizations benefit from other kinds of donations, such as dog food and kitty litter at the McCook Humane Society or diapers at the ABC Pregnancy Help Center. Just check with your favorite organization and see what they are in need of on a daily basis.

And every single one of the organizations involved in the Southwest Nebraska Big Give can use more volunteers. They need volunteers to serve on their boards, volunteers to help with events, volunteers to work at their facilities. The list of needs is long and varied but always constant.

The Southwest Nebraska Big Give website, swnebiggive.org, is a great place to learn more about each of the organizations taking part in the event, so you can determine which group to support financially. But the website is also a great source for contact information and to reach out about getting involved. 

Another great source is McCook Volunteers, which can be found on the McCook Community Foundation Fund website, mccookfoundation.org. Dozens of organizations - with more added regularly - are listed with their needs and their contact information. 

Take advantage of the Big Give to show your financial support for these organizations which keep our communities going. But use the rest of the year to get involved in these organizations and help keep our communities thriving.

By Ronda Graff 16 May, 2024
Sitting at a polling station for 12 straight hours provides a lot of insight into our community. The experience proved that we are social animals who need to be around others. The experience demonstrated that regardless of everyone’s difference of opinions, we are all still neighbors, friends and family who want what is best for our hometowns. And the experience showed that even a situation as dry and sometimes contentious as voting warrants a hug or two. Earlier this week, I had the privilege of working a polling station in McCook during Nebraska’s primary election. And while officially it was the opportunity to cast your vote to determine the future of the community and the country, let’s be honest that it was a social event. For transparency, it was not a social event based upon the voter turnout. The next day, several people commented that they didn’t know the primary was Tuesday. And several people noted that they were voting because they noticed someone else with an “I Voted” sticker earlier in the day. Otherwise, they had either forgotten it was the day of the primary election or they didn’t know in the first place. Granted, very few races in our area had either enough candidates to have a contested race (a sad fact) or had serious candidates to give the incumbents serious competition in which to hold them accountable (yet another sad fact). But I digress. Being at the polling station for so many hours can seem daunting, but instead it was fascinating. Yes, there were proclamations about how many hours were left until the polls closed, but that was followed by another trip to the food buffet provided by everyone working the precinct. I was fortunate to be at McCook Christian Church, which is home to two polling stations so we had twice the number of poll workers I am assuming. Not that my personal station’s worker were not entertaining on their own but “competing” against the opposing tables to see who had more voters kept us entertained. But I also watched as each voter entered the building, with at least one worker knowing them. With such slim pickings on the ballot, the voter could easily be in and out of the voting station in less than two minutes. This was even after showing their ID, a new requirement for voting in Nebraska. On a side note, no one took me up on the idea of taking a drink every time someone was turned away for not having their ID on them but kudos to those who went home to get their license and retuned to make sure they voted. Let’s not dwell on them driving to the station without their license in the first place. But I digress. Very few voters spent less than five minutes at the election site because inevitably a conversation began with a poll worker or another voter. There were questions about how work was going that week, whether the college-age kids were returning for the summer, if there were any big vacations planned in the upcoming months. And just as many conversations ended with a hug between friends, because they hadn’t seen each other in a while or they knew one of them had faced an illness or tragedy. None of this involved voting. Instead, it was another opportunity to interact with our neighbors and friends and remember that we have more in common than we have different. Before the November general election rolls around (mark your calendars for Tuesday, Nov. 5 and while you are at it, Thursday, Nov. 7 for Southwest Nebraska Big Give), there are many things to prepare for: Register to vote. Make sure you are signed up to vote and know which voting precinct you are assigned to. Many voters entered and then had to leave without voting because they had moved since the last election or their precinct had been reassigned. Learn about the issues on the ballot. Yes, you can have your phone with you in the booth to help you make last-minute decisions but it is your civic duty to have done a bit of research before voting. Educate yourself about the candidates. There will likely be gatherings where you can meet the local candidates, perhaps even a “debate.” But one of the pluses of living in a small community is the opportunity to meet the candidates in person. Reach out to them if you have a question or just to get to know them better. These are the people who will be making decisions that directly affect you, your family and your hometown. You have every right to know who you are voting for. In fact, it is your responsibility to enter that voting booth educated about the issues and people you are voting on. And finally, show up to vote. Even though there will be more choices on the November ballot and more people are expected to vote, it will still take less time to cast your ballot than you will spend in the drive-thru line for your morning coffee. Ultimately, you will likely leave the polling station with more than you arrived with: You will get a sticker. You will have the pride of knowing you did your civic responsibility. And perhaps most importantly, you will have the opportunity of interacting with the poll workers, who have given their day to make sure your voice is heard. Hugs are optional.
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