Anyone with more than one child knows that none of them are the same. They each have their own characteristics and their own quirks, their own way of learning and their own way of responding to a situation.
Just as every child is different, every high school class is different. Ask any teacher who has been teaching a few years about the ebb and flow of classes through a school.
But this class of 2020 will have the distinction of truly being different.
Along with everyone else, their year was upended this past spring. And while hopefully, the next class will be able to return to some sort of normalcy, the Class of 2020 will not get those opportunities back.
There was no senior celebration or senior trip. The spring sports season was lost to the history books. And there was no final chance to say goodbye to teachers and friends.
But the McCook High School Class of 2020 is fortunate to have one final hurrah with an adjusted graduation and a semblance of a prom to close out their high school career.
As the MHS Class of 2020 prepares to walk across the stage Friday evening to “officially” graduate, it will be about as normal as normal can be these days. Their name will still be read, speeches will be made and someone will sneak in an airhorn to celebrate the milestone.
But the changes to the graduation ceremony will not be missed. The stands will not be packed because of the health directives in place. There will be family members with hurt feelings because they could not be included. And there will be fewer kids in the chairs, as some have already left for the military or moved onto the next phase of their life.
If there is an upside to all this, everyone is hopefully a bit more lean and sporting a summer tan in all those graduation photos. After all, it’s the end of July. Graduation should have been two months ago when we were still trying to shed our winter fat and just unveiling our pasty white legs.
After graduation, many will take their diplomas, leave for college or a career elsewhere and never look back. Letting these kids go is a missed opportunity on our part, but one that can be easily amended.
The McCook Community Foundation Fund conducted a “youth survey” at the McCook High School this past spring, the fifth survey held over the past 20 years.
We were supposed to do follow-up conversations with the kids in April about the results, but obviously that didn’t happen. That was going to be our opportunity to have a dialogue about what they want to see in their community and how they could be involved and make that happen.
But more importantly, it was going to give us a chance to do the one thing that many adults fail to do: Ask our youth to move back to McCook.
In the survey results, nearly 65 percent of the kids said they had never been asked to stay or return to McCook.
While it may seem like a simple concept, people like to be asked. They like to feel appreciated. They like to feel valued. And that is what that question boils down to: We want our youth to move or stay in McCook because we want them to be part of our community. We want them to establish a career here. We want them to raise their families here.
As the parent of a graduating senior with a husband who has taught nearly everyone of these graduates, we have grown close to these kids and I would love to see not only my own kids but all of them stay or return to McCook.
As the McCook High School Class of 2020 prepares to graduate on Friday, we wish them nothing but the best. We want each and everyone of them to know that they are a valuable member of this community. We want them to know that they can always call McCook home. And just in case no one else told them (or they missed it during this week’s graduation practice when Tyler McCarty was supposed to be sharing that message but instead was memorably throwing shrimp at them): Class of 2020…we want you to return home to McCook and help us make this community an even better place to call home.
McCook's last hometown bakery closed this past week, leaving a void not just for donuts but for connections.
Many organizations and businesses in McCook offer the opportunity to recycle, reuse and repair items that may just end up in the trash.
Organizer for Buffalo Commons Storytelling Festival and former librarian named Oct 2025 volunteer of the month.
McCook's Third Thursdays were created to get businesses and organizations involved and designed to create life-long memories for the community.
Long-time community advocate Barb Ostrum received the Sept 2025 McCook Volunteer of the Month award.
We need to celebrate our young people while they are here and encourage them to return.
While some like myself appreciate a rainy day, others dread them for a variety of reasons. We need to be empathetic as interact with others.
MCFF Fall Grant Deadline is Oct. 1. Complete list of former recipients on MCFF website
With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
Most likely, we aren't going to be good at something at the start. But that shouldn't stop us from trying.
