All of my kids ride bicycles, some more than others, which means different skill levels. 

Most of my kids have ridden every mile across Iowa, among thousands of other bikers, so are very agile and experienced on a bike. 

A few of my kids have not spent much time on a bike so when they do, issues sometimes arise. 

In particular, my youngest daughter, Emma, was on a ride with me from McCook to the Kansas border. For those who don’t know the terrain, there is a significant hill south of McCook as you leave the Republican River Valley, otherwise known as “M” Hill. 

As we made our way back toward McCook, we descended the hill, quickly picking up speed. Unfortunately, Emma put most of her weight on the seat of the bike, relieving pressure from her hands on the handlebars. This may not sound important, but without that focus and forward pressure, the front wheel started to wobble. She tried to regain control but by then, it was too late. Luckily, she was near the bottom of the hill and her speed was slowing, but she still veered off the shoulder and wrecked into the ditch. Fortunately, she was not seriously hurt and the bike was still rideable so we rode the last mile back to our house to clean her up. 

It was a valuable lesson for my daughter, who still rides bikes occassionally.

But that lesson of applying pressure also relates to our communities. It is OK to coast sometimes, but there are times that you have to keep the pressure on whatever you are doing to keep moving forward. 

If you let up, things can veer out of control. If you don’t have a plan, you are being reactionary rather than intentional. If you don’t have a say in what is happening. Instead, things are just happening to you. 

And right now, McCook is in control of what is happening and is making things happen versus just letting things coast along - and to say there are things happening is an understatement. 

Community members are putting in a lot of work to make it a reality. Essentially, they are applying pressure to make McCook on the move. 

There was pressure from the community and the voters to build a new city pool. And this summer, the new McCook Aquatic Park was at maximum capacity for several days. 

Private and public donors have shown their support for the McCook YMCA, as it nears the fund-raising goal, which means it can move forward with the renovations and expansions at the 40-year-old facility. They aren’t there yet, so please show your support by considering a donation to the project. Be part of the pressure to make this project happen. 

And the McCook Public Schools bond issue to build and expand the McCook Senior and Junior High buildings will be on the November ballot, essential to the education of our kids. As one grandmother told me recently, this project should have been done 20 years ago. 

A lot of these projects should have been done 20 years ago, but they didn’t. Instead, our community coasted along, not applying pressure to make things happen, to stay in control of our future. 

We always have options about what our community looks like. 

One option is to do nothing. We can sit back and coast along, to just let things stay as they are or more likely, to deteriorate. But eventually, we won’t have a community, we won’t have young people, we won’t have workers, we won’t have families who want to live here.

Another option - a better option - is to continue to provide pressure on our elected officials to get things done, for our leaders to be proactive rather than reactive to moving our community forward, for community members to get involved and have a say in what we want our community to look like. 

By leaning into the issues, projects and programs happening in our community, we will continue to move forward and will continue to stay in control and will continue to make McCook and Southwest Nebraska an even better place to call home. 

By Ronda Graff October 24, 2025
McCook's last hometown bakery closed this past week, leaving a void not just for donuts but for connections.
By Ronda Graff October 16, 2025
Many organizations and businesses in McCook offer the opportunity to recycle, reuse and repair items that may just end up in the trash.
By Ronda Graff October 13, 2025
Organizer for Buffalo Commons Storytelling Festival and former librarian named Oct 2025 volunteer of the month.
By Ronda Graff October 10, 2025
McCook's Third Thursdays were created to get businesses and organizations involved and designed to create life-long memories for the community.
By Ronda Graff October 2, 2025
Long-time community advocate Barb Ostrum received the Sept 2025 McCook Volunteer of the Month award.
By Peggy Been October 1, 2025
We need to celebrate our young people while they are here and encourage them to return.
By Ronda Graff September 29, 2025
While some like myself appreciate a rainy day, others dread them for a variety of reasons. We need to be empathetic as interact with others.
By Ronda Graff September 23, 2025
MCFF Fall Grant Deadline is Oct. 1. Complete list of former recipients on MCFF website
By Ronda Graff September 19, 2025
With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
Most likely, we aren't going to be good at something at the start. But that shouldn't stop us from trying.