All of my kids ride bicycles, some more than others, which means different skill levels. 

Most of my kids have ridden every mile across Iowa, among thousands of other bikers, so are very agile and experienced on a bike. 

A few of my kids have not spent much time on a bike so when they do, issues sometimes arise. 

In particular, my youngest daughter, Emma, was on a ride with me from McCook to the Kansas border. For those who don’t know the terrain, there is a significant hill south of McCook as you leave the Republican River Valley, otherwise known as “M” Hill. 

As we made our way back toward McCook, we descended the hill, quickly picking up speed. Unfortunately, Emma put most of her weight on the seat of the bike, relieving pressure from her hands on the handlebars. This may not sound important, but without that focus and forward pressure, the front wheel started to wobble. She tried to regain control but by then, it was too late. Luckily, she was near the bottom of the hill and her speed was slowing, but she still veered off the shoulder and wrecked into the ditch. Fortunately, she was not seriously hurt and the bike was still rideable so we rode the last mile back to our house to clean her up. 

It was a valuable lesson for my daughter, who still rides bikes occassionally.

But that lesson of applying pressure also relates to our communities. It is OK to coast sometimes, but there are times that you have to keep the pressure on whatever you are doing to keep moving forward. 

If you let up, things can veer out of control. If you don’t have a plan, you are being reactionary rather than intentional. If you don’t have a say in what is happening. Instead, things are just happening to you. 

And right now, McCook is in control of what is happening and is making things happen versus just letting things coast along - and to say there are things happening is an understatement. 

Community members are putting in a lot of work to make it a reality. Essentially, they are applying pressure to make McCook on the move. 

There was pressure from the community and the voters to build a new city pool. And this summer, the new McCook Aquatic Park was at maximum capacity for several days. 

Private and public donors have shown their support for the McCook YMCA, as it nears the fund-raising goal, which means it can move forward with the renovations and expansions at the 40-year-old facility. They aren’t there yet, so please show your support by considering a donation to the project. Be part of the pressure to make this project happen. 

And the McCook Public Schools bond issue to build and expand the McCook Senior and Junior High buildings will be on the November ballot, essential to the education of our kids. As one grandmother told me recently, this project should have been done 20 years ago. 

A lot of these projects should have been done 20 years ago, but they didn’t. Instead, our community coasted along, not applying pressure to make things happen, to stay in control of our future. 

We always have options about what our community looks like. 

One option is to do nothing. We can sit back and coast along, to just let things stay as they are or more likely, to deteriorate. But eventually, we won’t have a community, we won’t have young people, we won’t have workers, we won’t have families who want to live here.

Another option - a better option - is to continue to provide pressure on our elected officials to get things done, for our leaders to be proactive rather than reactive to moving our community forward, for community members to get involved and have a say in what we want our community to look like. 

By leaning into the issues, projects and programs happening in our community, we will continue to move forward and will continue to stay in control and will continue to make McCook and Southwest Nebraska an even better place to call home. 

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Building Connections in McCook Matters June in McCook will be abuzz with fun events including a Youth Summit, hosted by McCook Community Foundation Fund. Our young people in Youth Change Reaction will host the first Nebraska Community Foundation gathering for youth, which will bring youth from across Nebraska to McCook. While still in the planning stages, our students identified that McCook is great because of connections . Our young people easily recognize how critical this factor is to people attraction, to people retention, and to improve their futures. What I miss most about my high school classroom is connections with students and colleagues. In education, I taught first, second, and sometimes third generations in families. My husband, Greg, and I are not McCook natives, but I eventually knew who was related to whom and usually where the parent(s) were employed. Going to the grocery store meant greetings from students and sometimes their family members. I officially retired from my high school classroom nine years ago in May. When you retire, the most-asked question becomes “What do you do with your time?” I try to maintain those connections and make new ones by belonging. For the past seven years, Sharon Bohling and I have volunteered to help plan and organize Bison Days for our high school students, which took place February 10 and 11. It would not happen without the financial support of McCook Community Foundation Fund, plus the McCook High School, local businesses, and the talented people of Southwest Nebraska who say “yes” when one of us reaches out to ask for the donation of time and talent. I would venture that they allow us to be on the Bison Days’ committee because we both have connections within our community—it’s certainly not our computer savvy. Connections can also solve a problem. Recently, I signed up to help a local family in crisis. My morning plan revolved around delivering my donation at a designated drop-off place. That didn’t work out. Fortunately, I still work with youth in various capacities, so I know that Keri Wilkinson works for Camy Bradley. Keri was an organizer for the family fundraiser, so I walked in Camy’s office hoping to find Keri. She was not there, so Camy and I visited briefly. She knew someone (who I did not know) who could possibly give me further direction. Only in a town with connections are you able to interrupt someone’s business, have her reach out for you using her connections , and offer to keep the donations for me until Keri’s return. Another great example of connecting can be found over coffee. Dee Friehe and I are longtime teacher friends. During a chance meeting at the grocery store a few weeks ago, she shared how she was there following a funeral service and was gathering supplies to deliver supper to the grieving family that night. She also updated me on her group of adults who meet for coffee on Thursdays at Ember’s, which varies from 8-28 depending on the day. She recognized the need for adults moving to McCook or folks just wanting to get out to make connections . Dee’s husband, Mark, also hosts his own group of men who are new(er) to McCook. She regaled me with stories of their Christmas party and other special gatherings. Wanting to call McCook your home is solidified by building connections . Ronda Graff has written about McCook Connects which matches a McCook person with someone new to the community of similar interests. I earned my McCook Connects’ T-shirt welcoming a young family with children. We have since spent many hot summer days sitting on bleachers together cheering on our 4-H horse kids while they show their horses. Warning: I connected them with a “free” new-to-them horse. Be careful connecting with me or you’ll probably own a horse. You do not have to be retired to connect in this community. Volunteering is a surefire way to meet people. McCook has many civic groups looking for new faces. Attend a church here; we have many welcoming congregations. Go to ball games or school concerts, attend concerts in the park, learn a new skill through the college, show up at a Third Thursday event or invite the neighbors for a BBQ. Take your youngsters to story hour or Move and Groove at the library. Go watch an event at the Kiplinger Arena. You can even take it a step further: Make a friend or call a friend and invite him/her to go with you. It is human connection that keeps us healthy and happy. If McCook Community Foundation Fund can help you connect in some meaningful way, please reach out for advice or support. *** While Pam Wolford may be retired, she is just as busy serving on the McCook Community Foundation Fund committee and started a new Learn and Return Scholarship with MCFF, while stepping up to grandparent whenever the call comes in.
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