Over the next 10 years, more than $422 million will transfer from one generation to the next in McCook and Red Willow County as part of the “transfer of wealth.” That numbers jumps to $3.9 billion (yes, with a B) over the next 50 years. 

Those numbers are staggering. But more importantly, those amounts are transformational - for good or for bad in a community - depending on what happens with a person’s assets. 

Think about what happens when someone dies and leaves all of their assets to heirs who don’t live in their hometown. Most likely, all those assets leave the community - forever.

Alternatively, think about what happens if just a small amount of that money is designated to stay locally - it stays in the community.

Each and every one of us needs to make the decision at some point of to give or not to give, as well as where.

As a a retired dentist who moved to McCook with my family in June 1969, I went on to practice dentistry for 45 years and developed a deep love of McCook. Three days after I retired, I joined the McCook Community Foundation Fund’s Advisory Committee.

Over the past decade, I have slowly learned how this foundation-concept works and how I can be an asset to the foundation and the community.

MCFF benefits from being part of the Nebraska Community Foundation (NCF) network with more than 1,500 community volunteers from hundreds of communities across Nebraska, providing resources and connections. 

It was during an NCF training that I found my “why” I do this fulfilling work.

The values that MCFF represents are important to me. They are honesty, integrity and inclusivity. Our networking with NCF has accomplished so much and we are incredibly proud and grateful. 

But there is more to do.

Over the years, MCFF has invested more than $3.4 million back into McCook and Southwest Nebraska, through grants, scholarships and investments. But the biggest impact will come from the “transfer of wealth,” which has already began.

Over the next 50 years, Nebraskans will transfer billions of dollars to the next generation. This transfer of wealth offers an unprecedented opportunity if we count our communities among our heirs. Imagine what an investment of just five percent of this transfer of wealth could do for long-term economic development and qualify of life in McCook.

The opportunity is massive. The time is now.

We must act now to encourage charitable investment in the future of our community while the window is open. We must teach, encourage and inspire each other to give back today. And we must include our community in our estate planning for tomorrow. 

Regardless of your age, I recommend everyone to consider the following:

Talk to your professional advisor about including your community in your estate plan.

Give to the endowment of your community fund or favorite charity. 

Create a donor-advised fund to support charitable giving.

Learn how you can create your own personal legacy.

I have made two planned gifts to the McCook Community Foundation Fund and it has given me more joy and happiness that anything I have every accomplished. I was told that it is not how much you have earned and saved, but how much you have given back. It is funny that if you continually give, you will continually have given.

On a personal note, everything I have accomplished came from hard work and the grace of God. The one thing I most remember from Dr. Ralph Iceland, the dean of the UNL Dental College, was that we owed our “community service to our community.”

It should be noted that I am not wealthy but I have more than I need. The question everyone needs to ask themselves is: Are you doing everything to make your community the best it can be?

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Dr. Bill Graves is a member of the McCook Community Foundation Fund’s Advisory Committee and has been involved in a host of projects that have shaped McCook’s future from Heritage Hills Golf Course and the new YMCA to Hillcrest Nursing Home.

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By Ronda Graff September 19, 2025
With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
By Ronda Graff September 12, 2025
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