Everyone is an alumni from somewhere or with something. It could be a link to an organization or a group. Perhaps it is an association with a college or a university. Or the connection could be with the public school from high school all the way down to elementary school. 

The bonds of our past associations can be reinforced by that common connection, maybe one you didn’t even know existed. I became friends with someone in North Platte several years ago and a few years into the friendship, we discovered that we were in the same second grade class in Omaha nearly 40 years ago. Turns out, we were alumni of the same elementary school. 

That is just evidence that it is hard to continue those connections with time and distance taking its toll. Fortunately, McCook is blessed to have a vehicle in place to help maintain those relationships: the Bison Alumni Newsletter, otherwise known as BAN. 

Started in 1991 by Steve Batty and Cheri Becknhauer, the newsletter is published twice a year, providing information about McCook High School, as well as the community. They realized the need to maintain connections once someone graduates, whether they stay in their hometown or they move away.

Many people likely remember the “folding parties” held in the McCook Junior High Cafeteria, where the paper copies were folded, labeled and stamped before being mailed to, at first, hundreds of alumni and then thousands of former McCook High School students. 

But as postage costs increased and volunteers became more scarce, the newsletter became available only via a digital format except for the few oldest McCook classes. No longer was a paper copy of the Bison Alumni Newsletter showing up in your mailbox to flip through from the first to last page. The printed edition was not laying around your parent’s house, waiting to be picked up and casually read when you had time. Instead, like most reading materials these days you had to find the link in your emails or visit the Bison Alumni Newsletter website to read it.

That being said, the Spring 2025 edition was just completed so please find it and catch up.

Which leads to the next matter: 

While the digital newsletter still contains all the same great information like the Heritage Days royalty and recaps of school events, there is now a different issue: the clutter of our email in-boxes and just information overload in general. 

We have so many services and businesses and events vying for our attention that an email twice a year can easily get lost in the shuffle. I know I spend the first few minutes every morning trying to shuffle through all the promotional emails and inspirational posts that fill my email in-box.

So the McCook Community Foundation Fund and the Bison Alumni Newsletter have teamed up to go old school by offering a “subscription” service for the newsletter. For a suggested yearly $20 donation, recipients will receive the fall and spring editions beginning with the Fall 2025 edition. 

Is this a bargain? Perhaps not, but it is a worthwhile project to help the Bison Alumni Newsletter continue. Is this a good investment? Yes, because this will ensure that we will help future alumni stay connected to their hometown. 

Why is that important? Because we want our current graduates to return to their hometown. We want our alumni to remember their former community when making estate plans. And perhaps most importantly, we want former, current and future graduates to stay connected and to be proud of being an alumni. And a simple piece of paper can help with that goal.

I must admit that I have a personal bias toward the printed copy. While I do own a Kindle to read digital books, I still love the feel of a book in my hands, flipping through a real magazine or slowly pursuing a printed newsletter.

And many people agree with this sentiment. So that is why we are hoping many people support a new subscription program with the Bison Alumni Newsletter, which needs at least 200 subscriptions to make it financially viable. 

Several people have already “subscribed” for themselves and have taken it a step further by providing funds to send the printed newsletter to their children. I assume they hope their children will take up the baton to pay for it themselves the next year but it gets the newsletter in front of the younger generation.

If you want more information about the Bison Alumni Newsletter printed edition, please visit the McCook Community Foundation Fund website at mccookfoundation.org, where you can make the $20 donation and get signed up for the launch of the subscription service in Fall 2025. You can also send an email to mcffund@gmail for more info or mail a check to MCFF/BAN, Box 525, McCook NE 69001, including the name and address(es) of the recipients. 

While we are doing this project with the Bison Alumni Newsletter, it can apply to any group, school or organization. Reach out and make those connections on behalf of your group. Or alternatively, reach out to a group you were once associated with and see how you can re-establish or strengthen those connections

This is our opportunity to make or continue those connections that will help our communities grow and thrive for generations to come, whether it is using high-tech or going old school. 

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With so much going, it is time for a “This, That and the Other Thing” column, where we will cover several topics, not very deeply but hopefully with a sense of humor as we clean up and prepare for a busy week in McCook. *** McCook again made state and national news this week for ice. This time, it was in the form of hail that pounded the community for hours upon hours. Conversations this week begin with “where were you….?” or “how many windows did you lose?” And while they may be legitimate and are offering their services, it is like vultures with all the roofing repair and dent removal businesses which have descended upon McCook following the storm. As city officials noted, do your due diligence with any company doing repairs for you and follow the old adage, which is old and still around because it’s true: If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. And one last note on the storm, we need to be careful what we ask for. As storm after storm approaches McCook and then splits in two to go around the town, we finally got one to roll right over us. The storm liked McCook so much it slowed down and just there. I was in Lincoln during the storm and trying to determine when I would drive home. I thought the weather app had frozen or the radar was broken because every time I looked, the storm was still sitting over McCook, doing its damage. I guess we can be thankful the next time a storm seemingly just goes around us. *** We are in the thick of McCook’s Heritage Days celebration. Congratulations to all the Heritage Days Royalty, which was announced at the MNB Bank Mixer this week. A special shout-out to Bill Donze, better known as Mr. Bill and his wife, Kathy, who were honored as royalty for their impact in McCook. As many know, Mr. Bill is fighting cancer and the prognosis isn’t good. The chances of him selling snow-cones and candy out of his van next summer near the McCook Aquatic Center are not good. One judge of his impact was the response to my column about Mr. Bill a few months ago. The post was shared thousands of times, viewed nearly 70,000 times with just as many comments by people sharing their fond memories of Mr. Bill. So when you see Mr. Bill riding down Norris in the convertible this weekend in the Heritage Days parade, send extra prayers and well-wishes to the man who has brought so much joy to so many kids - and adults too - over the years. *** Continuing on the Heritage Days theme, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that the McCook Rotary Club is tossing all egos and formality out the window this weekend. As the president of the McCook Rotary Club, I invite everyone to at least watch, if not participate, in the Rotary’s first inflatable costume relay race on Saturday as part of the festivities in Norris Park. These are those giant, blow-up costumes you usually see around Halloween. The first costumes were usually T-Rexes but now there is everything imaginable available as a design. With the idea for the race originally conceived by Melanie Goodenberger, she has purchased everything from corn on the cob to a cowboy riding a chicken. This is a fund-raiser for the Rotary Club with a cost of just $20 for a team of four to participate in the relay race. But it is also a chance to giggle, perhaps make a fool of yourself and just have fun. Come to the park Saturday afternoon for the Wiener Dog races and stay for the Rotary Relay races. While the dogs will already be close to the ground, the relay race participants will likely just end up on the ground. *** With so much going on in McCook this week, I debated whether there should be another activity the next week but the response has already been great for the Lied’s Arts Across Nebraska’s next production in McCook. Hosted by the McCook Creative District, the Omaha Street Percussion ensemble will perform at the Fox Theater on Wednesday, Sept. 24. There is a matinee showing at 10:30 a.m. but I will be up-front…we are testing the capacity of the Fox with every seat already claimed with students. If that is the only show you can make, please come and we’ll find you a seat but it may be those up in the rafters. Otherwise, please plan to attend the 7 p.m. show on Sept. 24. And even better, there is no cost thanks to the Kimmel Foundation and the Friends of the Lied. This is a busy week and a busy weekend but this is a great opportunity to sit back and enjoy a fun, entertaining evening of live music.
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