McCOOK, Neb. - Sometimes it takes stepping back and seeing your community as an outsider to really appreciate all that you have. That was one of the major themes that Matt Sehnert and Ronda Graff came away with after their recent attendance at the inaugural #WeaveThePeople conference in Washington, D.C.
Sehnert and Graff, along with Andy Long and Dale Dueland of McCook, were invited to the Aspen Institute gathering where more than 250 community “weavers” from across the country congregated to share their efforts at combating social isolation, repairing fragmentation, and uniting their communities. The conference was led by New York Times columnist and author David Brooks who traveled to McCook in March to learn more about the strengths of rural communities. Nebraska Community Foundation facilitated the rural Nebraska tour.
Brooks was impressed with what he saw and commented about his Nebraska visit, “Everybody says rural America is collapsing. But I keep going to places with more moral coherence and social commitment than we have in booming urban areas. These visits prompt the same question: How can we spread the civic mind-set they have in abundance?”
That visit led to the invitation to Washington, D.C., where Sehnert and Graff were asked to speak on the main stage along with authors, journalists and researchers, including Jonathan Haidt, Martha Welch, David Bornstein and Katie Couric. Initially, they questioned what they could offer, as “there were a lot of people there with a lot of credentials.” Ultimately they came to realize that rural areas (the Nebraska and Appalachia attendees were the only non-urban representatives) could be an example for strengthening communities throughout the nation.
“We hope and believe that what we’re doing here is working. We’re actually a good example for the rest of the United States,” Graff said. “We don’t have it so bad here. We actually have what seems like a very friendly, stable community. We don’t have the problems that a lot of the communities and the people that we met in DC; they’re facing a lot of tougher problems than we are.”
“We’re actually blessed with what we have – people and organizations and resources – that we can count on and use to our advantage.”
Sehnert found that much of the good work and processes that were presented came from people who faced some serious challenges in their lives. “A lot of people that spoke were doing what they do because of some tragedy that happened in their lives. Everything from suicide to murder to racial issues, rape – it ran the gamut. I think that the people from rural Nebraska and Appalachia were not in that mode so much. Obviously we have some of those challenges, but not near at the scale that they do. We are more challenged by poverty. We live here, so we don’t even know that we’re poor. But the wages that we all earn are not comparable.”
Sehnert also said that most of the attendees were part of a non-profit organization. It is part of their job to build communities and solve social problems. Sehnert said that the Aspen staff recognized that in McCook and Nebraska, people were creating community because it was their passion, not their jobs.
“There are some big issues out there that need to be addressed,” said Graff. “For us, we’re going to change and affect what’s within arms reach. Start small and do what we can locally and hopefully there’s a ripple effect.” Graff said that small “shifts” can help set an example for others. “It’s not a dramatic change, it’s just a subtle shift, and hopefully that’s enough for what we’d like to see happen.”
Their vision is to see more people get involved in community activities and pursuing their passions. “It takes effort on everybody’s part,” said Sehnert, explaining that a small group can put in a lot of effort to organize an event, “but what the rest of the people need to do is put enough effort in to load their kids in the car and show up.” Taking the first step and starting out as a participant, may eventually lead to greater involvement and connections. “Either find something in the community that gets you excited, but if you can’t, then create it.” They said that small efforts in “putting yourself out there” can lead to huge benefits, both personally and for the community.
They explained that McCook has the tools to help people pursue their passions. Those tools include community foundation grants, partnerships with the city, college, economic development corporation and the chamber. “The metro areas have a lot of different resources at their fingertips that we don’t have, but what we do have are the contacts and the relationships,” said Graff. Personal contacts and face-to-face conversations are keys to expanding involvement and support for community and neighborhood projects.
They also spoke about the difference between acceptance and inclusion. “That is something that I would like to personally work on,” said Sehnert, “because I feel like I’m a pretty accepting person, but am I inclusive enough? Whether that means racial or gender or religion. . . Inclusion is something I’m going to work on.”
“You only know what you know, and when we saw the challenges that other people are having in our nation, we realized how many benefits we have here in Southwest Nebraska,” said Sehnert.
Graff echoed, “When we went to D.C., we wanted to highlight that McCook and Southwest Nebraska does have a lot going for it. We do have a lot here that we can celebrate.”
Linda Graff named McCook Volunteer of the Month for December 2025
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While many people think volunteering is for older residents, serving your community has no age restrictions. And young people can regularly be found lending a hand or offering their services in their hometown. The November 2025 McCook Volunteer of the Month recognizes one of many young people are working to make their community an even better place to call home: Grady Riemenschneider. Currently a senior at McCook High School, Grady volunteers with a wide variety of organizations and groups. As a four-year member of the McCook Community Foundation Fund’s Youth Change Reaction, Grady serves as the ambassador for the youth group’s “Cars Under Stars,” the outdoor movie theater at the Red Willow County Fairgrounds. At nearly every showing, he can be found operating the projector and setting up the parking lot, as well as passing along his knowledge to the next ambassador. In McCook’s FFA program, Grady has held officer roles the past four years and is currently the chapter vice president, organized the chapter banquet in 2025 and coached for the conduct of chapter meetings. Along with serving as the president of the Driftwood Feeders 4-H Club, he assists with setup, tear down and fundraising for the dog show and helps fellow members train their dogs. Grady steps in to help and lead at local events, including Prairie Plains CASA’s Kick in’ It Up for CASA and the Cajun Broil; the Edward Jones Alzheimer’s Walk; operating sound boards for various groups; and Feed the Farmer. And he has served as a youth leader at McCook Christian Church for elementary youth since approximately 2018 as well as stepping up to ensure the ag program ran smoothly during a teacher’s maternity leave Upon request from his mother about some of Grady’s activities, Sharleen noted that he is the “Chief Household Operations Officer: first responder for Mom’s to-do list, go-to chauffeur and caretaker for his favorite sidekick (a.k.a. his nephew), and the family’s unofficial event planner who somehow keeps everyone together without a clipboard.” The McCook Philanthropy Council recognizes a volunteer every month who is doing good work in McCook and Red Willow County. If there is a volunteer in the community who should be recognized, please contact the McCook Chamber of Commerce at 308-345-3200 or visit McCook Volunteers on the McCook Community Foundation Fund’s website, mccookfoundation.org to complete a nomination form. The only requirement is that the nominee must be a resident of McCook or Red Willow County but please have information about the nominee along with where and how they volunteer in the community. The volunteer honoree is selected monthly by the McCook Philanthropy Council.
With the holiday's nearing, MCFF member and Mayor Linda Taylor reflects on the many things to be thankful in McCook.
The names of those people who have made a generational impact on McCook and Southwest Nebraska is a long list. Many of them are working day-in, day-out right now to make their mark on the community. And then there are those people who no longer call McCook home but still make an impact long after they are gone. Allen Strunk is one of those people. Allen passed away on Nov. 1 at his home in Las Vegas, Nevada but he never lost the love of his hometown. Born and raised in McCook, Allen was a member of an already well-known family, Harry and Arlene Strunk. The Strunks started and published the McCook Daily Gazette, with the motto, “Service is the rent we pay for the space we occupy in this world.” A saying that was so important that Harry had it etched at the top of his downtown newspaper office on Norris Avenue. That sense of service was passed along to Allen, who continued to serve his community as he took over leadership of the Gazette. I didn’t know Allen personally until he came back for visits years later. Even though my first job upon arriving in McCook was at the McCook Daily Gazette and Allen had turned over the publishing reins to Gene Morris many years prior, the Strunk legacy loomed large. He was instrumental in the building of the then-new YMCA, moving the facility from downtown to its current location next to the McCook High School. He was a key player in the new hospital, again moving from one location to a new expanded space. And McCook Community College benefitted his involvement in an expansion. Those projects continue to impact McCook today. And the support didn’t stop just because Allen retired from the Gazette and left McCook. There are programs the Strunks are involved in that benefit McCook and Southwest Nebraska. The Strunks continue to support Santa Claus Lane, which is overseen by the McCook Chamber of Commerce. And which after a few years of decline is seeing a resurgence of enthusiasm and nostalgia for the decorative holiday pieces lining Norris Avenue. Allen funds the annual McCook Area Outstanding Teacher award, which provides a financial prize to several teachers every year. And Allen recognized the work of the McCook Community Foundation Fund, providing a donation several years ago so that he could see its impact while he was still alive. This has led MCFF to consider how they will recognize and remember Allen for years to come. Because of his belief in service to his community, this could mean more recognition for the countless volunteers who keep our community thriving. It could be a day of community service, to see how many people can come together to make something happen. It could be a celebration for all the great things happening in our community. During Allen’s memorial service this past week in McCook, his step-daughter-in-law read the poem, “The Dash" by Linda Ellis, who published it in 1996. It reflects on the meaning of the dash between the birth and death dates on a tombstone. The dash is a reminder of everything that happens between the moment a person is born and the moment a person dies. The dash emphasizes the importance of how one lives their life during that time. The dash prompts a person to think about living, rather than worrying about dying. Ultimately, the dash is where all the good - and the bad - happens. And Allen Strunk made the most of his “dash,” both in his community and within his family. We can’t all run a newspaper. We likely aren’t going to etch our favorite saying into a building. But we all need to consider how we are paying the “rent for the space we occupy in this world.” And we can all make a difference in our hometowns, whether we currently live in them or even if we haven’t stepped foot on the main street in years.
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